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I want to spend some time answering the question I get more often than any other... H̲o̲w̲ d̲o̲ I̲ g̲e̲t̲ m̲y̲ w̲i̲f̲e̲ o̲r̲ g̲i̲r̲l̲f̲r̲i̲e̲n̲d̲ i̲n̲t̲o̲ t̲h̲i̲s̲? or H̲o̲w̲ d̲o̲ I̲ b̲r̲i̲n̲g̲ t̲h̲i̲s̲ u̲p̲ t̲o̲ t̲h̲e̲m̲? Let's begin by understanding this isn't always an easy task, or else why would so many be asking this? It can be rare, though not impossible, to find someone who genuinely loves you as well as someone who is willing to experiment and grow with you while feeding and nurturing your deepest desires and need for something bigger and more exciting in the bedroom. If you’re one of those men, then you are a treasure, a prize to be had.. for the right women. You have to find the person who not only has those needs, but who is also willing to fulfill them while keeping you around to take care of all of her other emotional needs. Certain things need to be in place before you even attempt to enter into the lifestyle. I’ve learned many things through my own ever evolving adventure with my Cucky and how I'm in the healthiest relationship of my life despite the outright debauchery on my part. 😘 1. Find someone to LOVE – Both the most difficult and most important step! It might be obvious to most, but you need to be in a committed relationship before jumping into the lifestyle if you truly want this to work! Don’t just bring up cuckolding on the third date and say, “Hey how’s some new dick sound?” Stop it.. If you get her having sex with other men too quickly then her connection to you will fade. The key is to build into it slowly with baby steps, but those steps shouldn’t even begin until you’re firmly committed to each other. Sure, getting “cucked” can happen early on and it may be wonderful and all, but what does that matter? It’s a fun one-off fantasy, I'm talking something like what I have with my Cucky. The dream, as some would say. Honestly, there is no more fulfilling dynamic! So go fall in love! Most of the guys I talk to here are not only open to this type of relationship, but crave it the way I crave fucking black men! 😋You guys fucking rock! Honestly! You’re more caring and sensitive, careful and loving than most. The kind of men we look for when we’re ready to get married. You are a prize! Own it! Embrace it! We see you. Don’t pretend to be an Alpha for us. Be you and make us feel like the queens we are! So what type of girl do you look for? Do you look for a slut, a good girl or something in between? The thing to remember… We are more than our sex! Its about love and connection FIRST! Intelligent and successful women can be slutty if they want, they know how to hide it when the need to. A girl that you think is “good” may be just that, or she may be hiding some kinky AF fantasies in that dirty little head of hers! Trust me.. I have “good girl” friends who held off having sex years, or even till marriage. Now they’re naughtier than some of my “bad girl” friends! And so very intrigued when I tell them of my lifestyle! Sure, I had a lot to do with their evolution into Snowbunny land but you can do the same! Find that good girl who hides it all away and be the man to slowly peel away the layers of her naughty little onion. She wants it to happen. In a committed relationship she will be more open to exploring, but you have to do a few things first. 2. Make her feel safe and confident – She needs to know that she’s not just exploring other men and these fantasies for herself, but this is also for you! She needs to know that you need this. Open up about your fantasies. You need to tell her she deserves it. You need to tell her how beautiful she would look. You need to tell her how erotic the thought of watching her or just letting her play on her own with other men is for you. You need to tell her why and help her understand. Make her feel safe that you will NEVER slut shame her or use this against her. She needs the confidence to spread her wings and own her role as your Queen! Her pleasure is what matters most to you. Tell her that it’s her face that you see when you watch porn. She is at the center of every one of your fantasies. Build her up until she feels safe. Give her that confidence and power. 3. Bring it up, but don’t keep bringing it up – Start by bringing it up during sex when her inhibitions are all but gone. Use a toy and tell her how good she looks when it’s inside her. Have her suck on her toy white you fuck her. Mention how much it turns you on to watch her suck while you fuck her. Talk about it some when the time is right and she’s most receptive, but do not keep bringing it up. We need to connect and feel that one on one. Don’t divulge that you’re constantly thinking about other men fucking her while you should be getting off to her beauty, her body and her technique. If you oversell it, it will ruin any chance you have in getting her on board. Make it be something to consider, something you circle back to when you want to push her over the edge. 4. Let her pick the men – Don't try to set her up. Don't try to surprise her. Don't bring up this guy or that guy. Don't even tell her your choices unless she asks. Make her understand this isn’t about the men for you, it’s about her pleasure. Who knows what will pleasure her more than she does? If you must, one thing we love to hear is that you want the man to be bigger than you to give her the kind of pleasure she deserves, the kind of pleasure that you just aren’t capable of giving to a sex Goddess like her! 5. No pressure, no rules – I mentioned that you shouldn’t keep bringing it up and not to set her up with your idea guy, but hers. The pressure I’m talking about is that it’s okay for her to change her mind. There are times that we go into a date thinking we’re definitely going to have sex with this guy then that feeling fades for one reason or another and we change our minds. Let her know that it’s okay to change hers at any point. She is in control and you’re there to keep her safe. Don’t tell her she has to do this or that. I hate rules. They just make me want to break them. So you don’t set any of them for her. Set your hard boundaries and give her the freedom to play within them. Set up perfectly established boundaries and tell her how much better this all will be for both of you now that you have them in place. Also realize that these rules and boundaries will change and you will change with them. She may have you be there for her in the beginning then she may prefer you to wait at home after she gets more comfortable. Be a good little cuck and listen to your Queen. 6. Show how much you desire her at all times - This may be the most overlooked or under-talked about. There are couples, like us, who prefer to have other men fuck their girls until the end of time for them. Pussyfree way to be cucky 😘 This only works in a solid loving, long-term relationship. Even though I never plan to fuck my Cucky again, I need to know that he still desperately wants to fuck me. Knowing that he still desires me makes sex with other men that much naughtier and hotter. I want to know that he fucking craves me. That he feels a level of jealousy toward the other men for being able to fuck me, and pleasure me in ways he can’t. Even if you are pussyfree for life, you still nee to let her feel that you want nothing more than to worship her in any way she will mercifully allow when she relentlessly denies you. 😈 Teasing and denial is part of the long-term goals that we have. Long-term being the key. Don’t go into a relationship like this believing that all can start right away. This type of relationship should be a long journey of growth, vulnerability, fulfillment and erotic pleasure. If done right then that long winding road of shared eroticism can be far more exciting and rewarding than any destination. Love, -KY 💖