Dating vanilla men is so much fun. Generally, the more time ..

Dating vanilla men is so much fun. Generally, the more time a vanilla man spends with a vanilla Woman, the stronger grasp he has on who She is and what She is about. The opposite is true when they date Me. At face value, I present very vanilla, very “normal”. In the early stages of dating, I typically lead with My sensual side. I even allow the power dynamic to be more-or-less on even-footing (well, sort of. I’ll always have the advantage, but I’ll let the man think he’s got some sort of leverage with Me to make him be at ease). At this point in the dating game, Men typically take Me to be this seductive-but-sweet girl who is simultaneously attentive and assertive. Well-rounded, they think. They quickly file Me into the category of Women they wish to introduce to their families, putting Me on-track to fulfill their goals of marriage and family formation. And then, after a night of fucking, followed by a long morning of making love, I’ll peel back those layers and start telling the man about My love for dominance. At first the guy thinks I’m just sharing some kinky desire or fantasy with him. Most people have these. But as the conversation unfolds, he comes to realize that dominance isn’t this thing that I like to explore in My sex life, but rather My entire life is constructed around owning and building a global army of submissive men. He hears how I make them clean My home, chauffeur Me, do tasks for My friends, organize and execute dinner parties, accompany Me on trips around the world (on their dime). He learns that I’m highly creative in hearing the novel and ingenious ways i control, punish, humiliate, and also reward My beta boys. In a single conversation, his entire perception of Me and who he truly thought I was becomes destabilized and nothing makes sense. He simply cannot consolidate the multiplicity of My personas. One of them once said to Me, “Maria, all humans are like onions; we all have layers that get peeled back as we get to know each other. But with you, I feel like I’m not peeling back layers, but rather running into completely a foreign vegetable” 😂 I have lots of good stories about these men that maybe I’ll save for another post. My current boyfriend was the only exception in My dating experiences. Although I was doing My usual vanilla performance on our first date, he saw right through this. He obviously couldn’t exactly guess I was a lifestyle Domme. But he knew something was up, that I wasn’t as normal or vanilla as I was presenting. I actually ended up telling him on that first date as we were sharing a bottle of wine, and there was not even a glimpse of surprise on his face. He is very emotionally intelligent, but I attribute his intuition to the fact that he had dated another lifestyle Domme before Me. He therefore had prior exposure to both a Domme and Her lifestyle, so the vegetable he was on a date with wasn’t all that foreign. onlyfans.com/lordmaria