Being afraid of falling in love with others is not something..
Added 2021-11-01 02:57:42 +0000 UTCBeing afraid of falling in love with others is not something out of this world; I've run away from people for fear of getting involved, even if they were nice to me. That isn't wrong; it's self-protection and care. It is a way to protect ourselves from other possible frustrations when all love will at some point become bruises and scars. Unhappy couples are those who are deluded by the phrase "we never hurt each other." We will always get hurt and hurt other people! We are imperfect beings who make mistakes, learn, and sometimes hurt others as a way of self-protection. You surely can make mistakes, but you shouldn't run away from new relationships because of your scars. Mistakes are not a life sentence. You don't deserve to carry the burden of a mistake for life, you cannot be responsible for the failures of others, and you must use it in an intelligent way that doesn't take away your chance to live. Opening up to new people and opportunities can be a way to love yourself too. Don't carry the weight of never loving again because someone has hurt you. People who come to you don't deserve to receive this load of frustration, and no one is like anyone else. It would be unfair to you and each other. Get ready to say: I'm not ready, I'm still shaken. In the same way you should prepare to say: Thank you for giving me a chance to love again. If there's anything I can help you, reach me! I can be a sexy dirty bitch. And your best friend too <3
