Clip Title: **C.B.T. B@ait and Switch Part I** Subs need to..

Clip Title: **C.B.T. B@ait and Switch Part I** Subs need to be pushed to their edges. To me, there is little value to domination and submission if subs are staying within their comfort zones. The path towards being a better, more obedient sub will reach a state of inertia if I’m not keeping the sub in a zone of discomfort. All types of growth follow within this logic. For example, muscle cannot be gained if it is not first torn before being rebuilt. If you’re not experiencing at least some muscle discomfort at the gym or the days following, you can bet that you’re not going to see the results you want. Similarly, the greatest moments of psycho-emotional growth are typically born out of hardship and not when life is flowing seamlessly. When subs seek to serve, my goal is to identify their comfort zones and start pushing them past it. If I have a sub who is hyperactive and overly eager to serve, I teach him how to quell his energy by keeping him in lengthy predicament scenarios that require excessive amounts of quiet and focus. If I have a sub who has poor impulse control such as compulsive masturbation, I will do chastity training with him. And if I have a sub who is sensitive to pain and inexperienced with C.B.T., as is the case of my newest sub, I will train him to learn how to take blows to the balls. Domination is primarily a psychological game, and to this effect, turning a good sub into a great one is a practice of teaching them to manage their discomfort using only their minds. How one experiences boredom, sexual urges, pain, etc., comes down to interpretation. You can successfully mitigate the negative experience of any discomforts by shifting your interpretation of the event. Having an external source of influence like a Domme is one of the easiest ways to get there. You hate sitting still for long periods of time? Not if you’re doing it to impress your Domme. You feel anxiety at the thought of not being able to stroke your cock multiple times per day? Your new dopamine release comes from staying locked for her. You cringe at the thought of your balls getting kicked? It hurts much less when your pain makes her smile. And pushing these limits not only make you a better submissive, but also a generally more resilient and disciplined human in your vanilla life. All of my longterm submissives will attest to this, as the principle of discomfort is a constant in my D/s dynamics. So, tell me, what are your edges? Share in the comments, or message me directly