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Opening our hearts and doors full shoot on p@treon link in socials Sometimes I wonder what world we live in.... Strangers tell us because of our bodies we are exhibitionists if we show them. Yet we celebrate kids and bäbies bodies from the beginning. Then it seems as soon as we come of age and put sexuality into the picture we no longer can respect another's body or can see them as non sexual as well as sexual. No wonder adults are so challenged and children grow up feeling so lost, there are a lot of mixed messages. From being nurtured and loved for the body we were born with. To then be denied, shamed and hidden is the next step of evolution because we as a society have not managed to find harmony and an understanding that sexuality coexists not only with the body but sensuality as well. Women come of age and are often shamed but sought after for their bodies. What a confusing place to be. When women become pregnant social media platforms allow nudity like instagram but as soon as women are no longer pregnant they are shamed and denied. Men and women both have nipples yet womens nipples are shamed on social media and public places. Men have nipples because nipples develop in the womb before embryos become distinctly male or female. So by the time a Y chromosome kicks in to distinguish a fetus as male, the nipples have already secured their place. Areolas are the dark circles of skin around the nipples. They vary in size and color and can change over time due to aging, hormonal changes, and weight gain. While females generally have larger areolas than males, the range of potential functions is more or less the same. At birth, boys' and girls' nipples and breasts look alike. It's only at puberty, under the influence of hormones, when they begin to change. The nipples of both enlarge but female nipples enlarge more. At the same time, the ducts of the male breasts shrink while female breasts enlarge and remodel. Why are we creating so much challenge for ourselves with stories that separate us and lead us to believe things are good or bad when they are simply human? In a world where we've made sexuality all about pörn we've forgotten that it is a beautiful gift of pleasure, self care, intimacy between ourselves and others and a way to create our future generations. In a world where so many are starved of sexuality it has become a selling point and we've forgotten nothing that is sold is ever as valuable as what is nourished and respected and earned. Sexuality is first and foremost about connection if you want to experience the richness of it and depth at least. Otherwise it is simply a human need and drive, animalistic you could say. A basic human and animal function for a healthy being. When we lose our sex drive we actually generally have health issues. When men have erectile dysfunction it is also caused by health issues. Sexuality is an important healthy part of being human when included in a respectful and healthy manner. As we are humans we need to do better and be smarter about how we see the human body and sexuality to make a healthy, less dangerous and kinder world for us all to live in and for ourselves to live in our bodies. When I lived in Saudi Arabia. There was something happening at that time many years ago. It may have changed. I hope it did. Just like many other things I have come to know in life I hope they will also change in life in many of our cultures. Going back to when I lived in Saudi Arabia. Women worked there as sex workers hired by Saudi men (not legal) and women were also räped like many places of the world sadly. In this culture when I was there men were not allowed to have sex until marriage. Some waited a lifetime for their mothers to set up their marriage. Many could not handle the wait. I remember being in a 7/11 in Saudi. A lady was fully clothed from head to toe. You could only see her eyes. She had beautiful curves showing in her full black dress. I watched as one Saudi man eyed her up and down like she was wearing nothing or she was in a bikini. Women do not have to be naked to be admired for their beauty. When men are desiring women they desire women not just because they are naked. Sadly because men had a lack of sex until married this caused large issues like räpe and illegal protestation (like many countries). What was worse was that the women who were the victims of this were the ones punished by death by stoning some said. I am not sure of the full details as my heart was broken hearing and I did not want to discuss it further. I also remember when leaving to go to Saudi and live. My good friend also told me if I get räped they stone me to death. It's my fault not the man's fault. I was left speechless with a friend's sport and this story... I am still speechless thinking this was my intro into saudi from a friend making me feel scared before I even went. What a world we live in. eh!?! I hope one day we can all grow and open our minds to new ways to remember that the body is not the issue. It is our stories and the way we treat each other that is. That sexuality is not an issue, it is how we use it and treat each other through it that is. I hope one day we can be more human with the things that we are born with and a part of our nature. We can have more difficult conversations rather than project, judge and shame each other and strangers. But most importantly I hope that all of us can just be able to live a little more deeply unapologetically and kindly towards ourselves and others.