FREE **8 Starter Ideas She Can Take To DOMINATE You** Cassi..

FREE **8 Starter Ideas She Can Take To DOMINATE You**

Cassie wrote to me...

“I have a partner who is an amazing lover, and generally we focus on me. He recently expressed that he has a fantasy to be out of control, for me to take charge, and just let me do whatever I want to him, to be “taken.” I definitely can see myself in that role, but I could use some help! What does a man want in this situation? I typically just love for the man to take control, so this is a new role for me."

ROLE REVERSAL

This role reversal of taking turns leading your partner exponentially increases your sexual pleasure together. Why? Because being dominant flexes your sexual fantasy muscles in an empowering way for a woman. Leading gives you more sexual self-confidence.

And for a guy, being the one who gets DONE, is a fabulous break from always being the one DOING.

For a man to get really good in bed, he eventually gets his skills and techniques so wired that he is no longer in his head thinking about DOING, he is just being… interacting… That’s when he can finally surrender to his desires and be in the interplay of the moment.

Sexual switching can be VERY HOT for you both. But instead of thinking about sexual leadership in black and white terms, where she’s doing all the “topping” and he’s the bottom in full receive mode… Go technicolor here with me for a minute. Great sex is a flow state, not a role play (unless that’s what you’re specifically doing). So she might be the leader for one part of a lovemaking date and then want to relax and let her partner take charge. Then she could come up with an idea again that puts her in control and allows her partner to surrender. Instead of being the one calling the plays the entire time, it’s perfectly fine to lob the leadership back and forth.

I’m giving you a dominant game plan with 17 starter ideas below. To fully realize your switchy potential, I’d recommend you learn how to escalate arousal and how to elicit each other’s deepest fantasies.

Right now, you are kind of “guessing” what your partner wants. Yes, you can outright ask them… but it’s WAY more fun and revealing to use fantasy elicitation strategies.

Moving forward you are going to be able to unearth some HOT fantasies out of your lover’s brain and bring them to life. You’d be surprised what’s inside there waiting to come out. And one of the most fun things about being a couple is that your partner is going to think up fantasies you’d never imagine yourself. Some of my best experiences have come from my partner’s ideas. Trying new things is what keeps your new relationship energy going even after years of being together.

8-Step Switchy Date Strategy:

1. Touch his penis early and often. Put on something that makes you feel like a sexy badass. (Thigh high black boots, a cupless leather and chain harness and black lacy crotchless panties come to mind.)

2. Play some really grindy music. Contemporary hard rock, squishy dub, whatever makes your lady bits go nom nom nom… Tell him to strip for you very slowly.

3. Make him show you his penis. Admire and appreciate his genitals. Tell him how sexy he is, how much you worship his manhood and that you are going to do all kinds of titillating things to him starting now. Then start playing with his package. Grind your butt into his lap. Give him a few lickings. Tap it on your breasts. Wipe it across your lips. Worship it!

4. Go back and forth taking him in your mouth and kissing him. Make the kisses VERY WET.

5. Look him in the eyes as you are orally pleasuring him.

6. Press against him. Undulate on him. Lie him down on the bed and get on top of him. Drop your breasts in his mouth. Keep touching his penis and tickling or stroking his balls.

7. Move to 69 where you are on top of him. Give him instructions for exactly how you want him to pleasure you. Make a LOT of moaning sounds. Tell him how much he turns you on. Be as sexually self-expressed as you can.

8. Eventually you are going to want to get on him, most likely cowgirl style, and slide up and down on his manhood, building him up to an orgasm and then backing off a little bit so you can keep going until your legs give out. The whole time, tell him how good he feels inside you.

If you want to change positions, just tell him what to do. Use him for your pleasure like a boy toy. And when he comes, tell him what a good job he did pleasuring you.

That’s a nice switchy dominant-but-still-sweet way to take control.

If you have other ideas for things you'd like your woman to do to dominate you, post them in the comments below. Pay it forward by sharing!

Dominate Him Tonight,
Susan

P.S. Here is a sexy video of me giving even more tips on how to dominate your man. https://secure.personallifemedia.com/cb/dht-special/