🙊🥺👅 ***MAILBAG: "My Wife Won't Talk During Sex... I Can't Ge..

🙊🥺👅 ***MAILBAG: "My Wife Won't Talk During Sex... I Can't Get Any Feedback So I Am Worried She Won't Let Me Give Her A Yoni Massage Or Map Her Vulva"***

Q: Susan,
*I saw your previous post here on Only Fans about the map to give her a Yoni massage. I really want to get your map, but my wife doesn't talk during sex. I don't feel like I'd make much progress with her because I would still be shooting the dark.

What should I do? Love your work and thank you for always being so good about helping everyone! I've been a fan on your email newsletter for years.* -- Lon (name changed for privacy)

Dear Lon,

This is an EASY fix! You need to train your wife to begin to find her words. And you do that with these three techniques I've outlined below.

You'll have her telling you her deepest fantasies and giving you all the verbal feedback you need to become her most masterful lover in no time!

1) You have to "go first." Sexual masculine leadership means you model the behavior you want. So you just start talking to her and it will begin to feel like a natural conversation.

2) Read my free communication skill that ignites passionate lovemaking called, The Sexual Soulmate Pact. It's at sexualsoulmatepact.com This is the single most important technique I teach, and I give it away for free.

The Sexual Soulmate Pact is a ninja technique because it solves the biggest issues people have about asking for what they want or giving feedback:

1) "I don't know what I want, I just know what I'm getting isn't it. So I stay quiet and just accept what is happening and I'm not sexually satisfied."

2) "I don't want to hurt my partners feelings by giving them feedback so I just keep my mouth shut. Anytime I've said something, my partner has contracted and it's ruined the mood. So I don't say anything. I don't want to hurt their ego."

This behavior is a recipe for a failing sex life.

The Pact teaches your partner to know what their body wants and speak it out. It teaches you not to take feedback personally so your partner feels safe speaking.

You can either print out this book and read it together and create the agreement, or you can guide your partner by showing them how it's done through modeling the behavior.

3) As you are modeling the encouragement and rewarding her for any small wins when she says anything, you can also begin to talk more during sex by using these Dirty Talk techniques.

Get this free book at DirtyTalkBook.com

It's five ways to talk dirty without feeling weird. **They are not actually dirty at all.** They are things like appreciation and encouragement. I give you exact things to say and you can personalize them for your wife's pleasure.

When you start talking, she's not going to be able to stay silent. She is going to want to respond. That will get her more comfortable and soon she will be telling you want she wants and even sharing some of her fantasies with you.

Don't miss the technique called, Sharing Frames. This is done after sex is over and can actually be a good place to start getting her talking.

Let me know how things go!

Love,
Susan