

👀🪬❤️🔥ALL HER PARTS... Close Up Pic of a Beautiful Vulva With All The Parts Named and How To Touch Each Area for a Yoni Massage
*"Now I'm touching your mons. This is your outer labia. I'm tantalizing your fourchette, can you feel it? I'm sliding one very well-lubed finger from just under your clitoral shaft all the way down your vestibule to your vaginal opening. Do you like how slowly I'm going?"*
When you understand female genital anatomy, you know how to touch for pleasure in a way that comparatively, the "random rubbers" are just stumbling around in the darkness. Too many women get manhandled by ham-handed idiots with no finesse. I want you to be able to have your partner awaken your genitals or for you to be able to ignite your woman's genitals with this information.
By the way, "Yoni" is a tantric sex word for a woman's genitals. It sounds prettier than vulva and it's more accurate than vagina. Many women don't like their genitals called a pussy. So Yoni is a pretty, and reverential word that appeals to many couples.
Note: Lingam is the commensurate word for penis in sacred sexual practices. I like that better than penis or dick or cock in many cases.
When you know the parts of her Yoni -- and how they liked to be touched -- you become a more masterful pleasure generator.
Let's run through a woman's genital system first. In coming weeks I'll take you through the man's genitals and how they like to be touched and pleasured.
What you see in this picture is a woman whose spread herself wide open to teach you about female anatomy. So respect and honor her.
You see her vulva (the outer expression of female genitals), legs, groin, belly, mons pubis, sweet cheeks, ass, clitoral hood, outer and inner labia, fourchette, and vestibule.
That's just the outer anatomy. Soon I'll take you inside.
But for now, let's go over how each of these parts likes to be touched. Because they all have their touch preferences. And the more you know how to distinguish between the parts and how they like to receive sensation, the better lover you become.
Outside In
Soft, consistent, even-handed, smooth touch is vital. You want to think about not just stimulating the skin, but the meat of the tissue underneath the skin.
Start with her belly, legs and sweet cheeks, move in toward her mons, groin and outer labia, then touch the hood, inner labia and fourchette.
Never enter her vestibule, put your fingers in her vagina or start stroking the glans of her clit under her hood until she's ready and you've asked for her approval to go inside.
Always use a good, organic, sweet almond oil or similar edible oil. Lubes have preservatives and chemicals in them. If you wouldn't eat it, don't use it on her delicate mucosa.
I don't recommend coconut oil. It's naturally anti-bacterial and it can disrupt her delicate microbiome.
The feeling you're going for is soothing, relaxing, yet enough touch to bring flow to all the parts of her vulva.
A Yoni massage is vital for her to achieve her clitoral erection so that penetration feels as good to her as it does to you.
I also recommend making Yoni massages something she can ask for anytime without expectation of going further or feeling like she has to have intercourse in exchange. Offer unlimited Yoni massages so that you get good at giving them and she gets good at receiving them.
Over time, if she's not pushed for sex, she will actually want more sex than she did before. Because she's finally getting the attention to her genitals that's been missing her whole life.
Yoni massage will awaken new neural pleasure pathways to her brain. This kind of selfless touch will activate her vulva and turn on all her parts. This will move her from only being able to have an orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation to being multi orgasmic from all kinds of touch to her genitals.
Here is my video with more detail on giving a powerfully orgasmic Yoni massage.
https://betterlover.com/how-to-give-a-yoni-massage/
One of the best tricks to expanding a woman's orgasmic pleasure is to tell her what part your are touching when you're stimulating it. She can connect what she's feeling to this map of her genital parts. That increases the neural connection to her felt sense of pleasure.
*"Now I'm touching your mons. This is your outer labia. I'm tantalizing your fourchette, can you feel it? I'm sliding one very well lubed finger from just under your clitoral shaft all the way down your vestibule to your vaginal opening. Do you like how slowly I'm going?"*
Your first Yoni massage together should simply be mapping her vulva. Look at the picture here, and find and locate each of these parts. Touch them so she gets a feeling for each.
Over time, you can begin to understand how she likes each area stimulated.
I personally like my mons rubbed horizontally across from groin to groin. Whereas I like my outer labia to be kneaded and two fingers stroking it from top to bottom but not bottom to top vertically. I like the fingers to flow with the nap of my pubic hair, not against it. Just like a kitty wants you to stroke their fur from head to tail, a woman prefers her pussy stroked from top to bottom.
You will find that over time she gets more and more pleasure out of her inner labia being delicately stroked. She will feel orgasms from having her clit hood and the shaft stroked.
And as she begins to get clitoral erections, she will like you to roll the shaft between your fingers and jerk it off like you do your penis -- stroking the shaft up and down with a fluid motion.
Every woman likes different types of sensation, and what she wants changes from day to day. But overall, you are going for her ability to feel lighter and lighter touch as you awaken all that tissue.
The lighter you can touch her to give her orgasms, the more you're preparing her for an Expanded Orgasm practice. That is definitely masterly level stuff, which you can begin to learn about at http://expandherorgasmtonight.com
OK, Let me know your questions after you study this genital map and watch my Yoni massage video.
There's so much more I want to share!
Sending you much love and appreciation today for being one of the rare lovers who wants to co-create incredible pleasure.
I Honor You,
Susan