OPINION: 🌰🚫"NoNut November (No Fap) A fan asked my opinion ..

OPINION: 🌰🚫"NoNut November (No Fap)

A fan asked my opinion about No Nut November. Here's my response:

Men's sexuality is statistically like a big bell curve. Some men find it draining to ejaculate, others feel the need to do it multiple times a day while most men want to release 3-5 times a week give or take...

The males of our species are biologically wired to want to ejaculate frequently because it keeps your semen topped up and fresh. That way, when a female wants you for sex, you're most likely to pass healthy sperm to keep your line continuing.

There is nothing wrong with masturbating. Where men run into trouble, and why there's a No Nut and No Fap (masturbating to porn) movement is that some men masturbate more than is healthy for them.

Mostly it comes from porn addiction. Men get addicted to the dopamine release of coming via porn. Then it begins to invade their personal time to their detriment. The pursuit of that pleasure leads to being less able to feel pleasure in the other parts of their lives. At its most addictive, many men cannot get aroused by their own partners and they sink valuable time into a pursuit that has control over them.

Remember, pornography is a money-making media business that has no redeeming value in your life. You are being preyed upon by the porn business for their gain and your loss. According to a Time Magazine study, 96% of porn shows scenes that are degrading to women. And porn is not the way women want to be made love to. It gives you a false sense of what sex is.

If you can't go two months without masturbating to porn, it may be time to break your addiction.

If you can use your own fantasy to masturbate, rather than relying on porn, this is healthier as well.

My friend C. Smith has written a free pdf on how to end porn addiction which may be of interest to you. It's here https://flying-eagle-method.org/

If porn addiction is not an issue for you. If you don't feel drained when you ejaculate. If you are putting your extra time to doing good work in this world and bringing your creative talents to the fore, there's no need to abstain.

If you're spending more time than you know you should masturbating or if you have any sense that your masturbatory practices are limiting your gifts and growth, maybe No Nut November is for you. Only you, in your heart, know what is right.

No matter what, I love you and care about you.

Love,
Susan