In her defense, I think she may have been feeling a little g..
Added 2021-12-01 19:04:06 +0000 UTCIn her defense, I think she may have been feeling a little gun-shy because of a recent incident that had occurred in her relationship. She and her hubs have been in the lifestyle for a long time, and apparently a hot vanilla woman in the neighborhood knew it.
They were all at the same neighborhood party, and this vanilla neighbor of hers started making out with her husband on the sly...Ms. Vanilla had pulled her hubs to the side as if she were sneaking around, and then never mentioned the little make-out sesh to the wife later. Instead she just profusely flirted with hubby as if they shared some big secret. The wife didn't find out about it from her hubby until after the party had ended and felt betrayed that he had made out with someone who believed she was pulling one over on the wife.
So yeah, there can be drama in the lifestyle if boundaries and communication aren't crystal clear. I mean, there's risk even if they ARE clear...emotions can come up in unexpected ways. So if you're considering the lifestyle, you have to go into it with a strong relationship, a lot of trust and with your partners best interest (and the best interest of your relationship) at the forefront.
Soooo, tell me...are you considering the lifestyle? Already involved in it? What's your take on drama in the lifestyle? Ever experienced it?
