this post isn’t sexy// cw assault/recovery but it’s an impo..
Added 2019-10-28 05:56:46 +0000 UTCthis post isn’t sexy// cw assault/recovery
but it’s an important talking point that i’d prefer to share with one small audience of people who pay me rather than opening it up to whoever stalks my other shit for free// possibly making someone think i’m subtweeting them (i’m not).
anyway
hugs aren’t something a lot of people think of as particularly intimate, but for me they’ve long been a source of anxiety that stems from feeling physically trapped by someone stronger than myself. in a lot of ways, i have managed to get more comfortable with hugs. it’s always been easier to hug smaller people, femmes, and generally not fit people. the last hurdle seemed to be my ability to give a hug to my muscular cis male friends and not have That Feeling. it’s with happiness in my heart that i day tonight i gave a very tight hug to a fit cis dude who’s an absolute sweetie & good friend of mine from the fighting game community and it just felt like a good ass hug from a friend. it was real nice.
