The urban myth that relationships are supposed to tank after..
Added 2023-01-24 22:11:43 +0000 UTCThe urban myth that relationships are supposed to tank after two years is BS!! What happens after two years, which is reflected in the decline of pleasure hormones and neurotransmitters, is that people begin to put their attention elsewhere. In the first couple of years, they prioritize the relationship and sex. And then they put their attention on other things. So the relationship languishes. Cause: Lack of attention. Effect: Your relationship suffers. At this point, there's a call to go deeper. Since most don't have the tools, or recognize the opening portal, people falter. Instead of going forward, they go backwards. Because whatever isn't growing is dying. This is a spiritual and natural law. Each time you get the invitation to go deeper, you step forward in your life. When your demons get triggered, instead of running, you plant down and confront. You face them. Your relationship ought to hold you to the fire. Your relationship should be your closest ally to work through this stuff with. So please be brave and go deep with thm. The essence of conscious, powerful, gourmet sex is to use your intimate connection to transform your lives. You show up with everything you've got. There's no holding back or playing it safe. You risk it all. You take your relationship out of the realm of being good partners, buddies, etc., - - - into the epic. This is when you become super humans. The true magical power of intimate relationships can only be accessed when YOU GO DEEP. #oneofmymantras xo
