The sensation of pain activates our pleasure, awakening dormant energy within our body.
The act of surrender activates our courage, awakening dormant power within our spirit.
The joy of embodied play activates our creativity, awakening dormant inspiration within our psyche.
Sex is a portal for all of the above. But what is “sex,” beyond penetration and a hurried rush to climax? That’s for each of us to discover.
The feelings we seek in impulsive pleasures are invitations to our deepest truths; to true liberation and power. What we most deeply crave lies beneath the shiny exterior of the former; the full embodiment of our sex unlocks the latter.
It’s an in-body experience that can’t be expressed in words. For a glimpse into what one moment of it looks like for us, here’s a clip from some of our play. ❤️🔥
P.s., to see a 14-minute clip of the impact play & spanking fun we had last night, tip $12 on this post.
*Video by Tits & Coffee - Creative Studio for Conscious Adults*
There’s delicious pleasure available to us every day. It’s up to each of us to allow, receive, and create the juicy experiences. Here’s to many yummy moments today, Wild Ones! 💦
My pleasure, or his? The two are beautifully intertwined in these moments—his pleasure inspires more of my own, my joy ignites more of his pleasure.
The electric energy is palpable, pulsating from his cock into my mouth and activating my throat chakra, pleasure tingles radiating down my spine.
It’s no longer a tit-for-tat exchange of giving or receiving. The habit of score-keeping is quickly diminishing, the more our bodies memorize the feelings of trust, surrender, connection, and pleasure.
A knowing that we’ll each be taken care of.
Because, the truth is, we have needs. Boy, do we have needs! But it’s not as terrifying as it once was, to admit they exist.
The more we play, explore, and open up, we discover more of our needs. We communicate those needs. We find ways to m€€t those needs. And at times, simply sit with the uncomfortable neediness of having needs.
But right now, in this moment, both souls are being fed, and both hearts feel seen. ❤️🔥
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Here’s to a powerful Monday, Wild Ones!
In the midst of our soul-fucking, we have these moments of remembrance…
Of who we are, of our power, of the expansiveness of our eternal beings…seen through the lens of our human eyes, and felt through the pleasure of our human bodies.
It’s an experience that can’t quite be explained. An experience that unfolds when we’re both deeply present in our bodies, minds, and spirits, keenly attuned to the energy flowing between us. It’s that same presence that makes our kinky play so fucking transformative, healing, AND fun.
Once we got a taste of what sex felt like with that fullness of presence, there truly was no going back. In fact, without that presence and connection, sex just doesn’t work. It’s flat, mechanical, and bland…we’d rather stop and reconnect than try to force something that isn’t flowing.
Sometimes, there are some unspoken feelings that need to be acknowledged. Other times, all it takes is a few deep breaths and a look into each other’s eyes…HOME. ❤️🔥 And EVERY time, it’s worth the time & effort it takes to return to a space of deep presence…where more pleasure can be activated, and sex is a magical portal for healing, comfort, expansion, or anything else we need it to be at that time.
We’re thankful to get to share these parts of our journey with you, and look forward to sharing much more. Remember to check your DM’s for this weekend’s juicy video, and tune into our first live Q&A today at noon PST.
Here’s to a pleasurable Sunday!💋
Words are powerful, shaping our perception of our life experiences. Being more aware of how I speak & think about myself and my sex life helped me reshape how I see my sexuality and pleasure.
For example…
Do I HAVE to give a blowjob, or do I GET to? Better yet, am I EAGER to?
On that note, how does it feel to call it a “blow job,” anyway? What feels even better? Perhaps…cosmic cocksucking, or cock-tasting. After all, with each drop of his delicious cum, I feel like I’m tasting the Milky Way. 💫🪐 Ooh! Those words feel yummy.
Let’s have some fun in the comments today, and let us know what YOU’D prefer to call it other than a blow job.
Here’s to a playful, pleasurable Saturday, Wild Ones.♥️
-Luci
Your healing touch on my skin.
Your warm kiss on my lips.
Your intoxicating breath on my neck.
Your comforting embrace around my chest.
The surrender you lovingly command, you’ve beyond earned. The desire your presence compels, my heart melts into.
I will journey with you through this universe and beyond. Lead me, my Love, into bliss…through the unknown, through the chaos, through the beautiful mess.❤️🔥
(Tip $5 for a sneak peek photo of what’s coming in this Sunday’s video DM!)
Video by Alan Deneken
Thank you, my Love…
For embracing my darkness, my light, my magic, my mystery, my intensity.
For standing in your godlike steadfastness when the dark goddess in me rages in wrathful fury.
For getting out of your comfort zone to m£et me where I am, discovering the new threshold of your capacity time and time again.
For being a safe haven where I can melt like butter in your presence, completely surrendered in mind, body, and soul.
For anchoring me with your presence and strength, from head to toe…or more specifically in this photo, from root to crown.❤️🔥💦
For courageously exposing all of who you are to me—the parts you’ve feared were too much, too little, too weird—exposing my own fears of the same within me.
“Heal the boy, and the man will appear,” and the KING will rise. Likewise for the y0ung, wounded girl. King and Queen, God and Goddess, what thrones could hold us now?
I thank us both for not giving up, for fighting for that little boy in you and the little girl in me. For setting them free to become the man and woman they always dreamt they could be, inviting them to playfully keep exploring and expanding.
Here’s to liberated hearts and infinite lifetimes of fiery love, Wild Ones.
We don’t believe in finding “the one,” as if there is some elusive process or path that leads us to our “twin flame.”
Personally, we find much of the conversation about twin flames & soul mates to be a scapegoat for doing our own inner work, awaiting that magical unicorn of a person to activate us into higher consciousness without ever having to face our demons.
The truth is, relationships DO activate us…but not in the way many of us expect.
They activate old wounds. Unexplored depths of our shadow. Unresolved trauma in the body. Disowned desires. Repressed longings of the soul. None of which we’d ever get to explore and experience within partnership if we run at the first sign of conflict, pain, or discomfort.
Do you really want a “conscious relationship” where you can experience the cellular healing, DNA activations, emotional resolution, and deep intimacy? It will require your FULL fucking commitment.
This journey is not for the faint of heart. Your deepest insecurities and fears WILL be exposed. Your resolve will be tested. And the depth of your commitment will be revealed.
We often hear, “you’re so lucky!” But we are not lucky, people. We’ve BOTH committed and put in the work, first and foremost within ourselves. The “US” doesn’t work without it…as we’ve learned the hard way, especially in those defining moments when we nearly called it quits (and a couple times we DID say we quit, with full sincerity).
These are the moments we ultimately chose to recommit and go DEEPER. The moments where some of the most expansive growth happened.
In our 15 yrs of marriage, we’ve grown from wounded children seeking validation, completion, and permission from each other, to response-able beings, ruthlessly committed to their expansion as a couple and as individuals. We no longer avoid the storms; we weather them together.
This is where the real magic, healing, and activation happens.
Ready to explore new depths with your Lover? Check out the new 25 Days of Play at lucilampe.com and get ready for oh-so-many juicy activations with your beloved. Be sure to use code OFMEMBER for 50% off!
Here’s to a beautiful new week, Wild Ones. ❤️🔥
It’s Sunday, Wild Ones…you know what that means! Juicy videos sent to your DMs. Here’s a super brief peek. Check your inbox for more!💦 (Brand new to our page and didn’t get today’s DM? Comment “Sunday fun” below to receive the message!)
We hope to inspire you to have some sexy play time today. We’ll be shooting lots of new content today, which we’ll be sharing with you soon. Stay tuned! What are you up to today?
Sex is bigger than we’ve been led to believe. It’s so much more than the contact of genitals and quick orgasms. Or at least, it CAN be.
Sex is a playground.
Sex is a healing space.
Sex is a place of sacred remembrance.
Sex is a space of discovery.
Sex is beautiful surrender.
Sex is radical acceptance.
Sex is art in motion.
Energy flowing…bodies glowing, expressing, giving, receiving, creating…present in the NOW…connecting to the cosmic oneness of pure loving consciousness.
Delicious moments like the one pictured here happen for us when we’re fully present with our bodies and the energy exchange between us. The genuine joy, the eagerness, the enthusiasm, the playfulness…all flows naturally because the focus is not on the sucking, licking, or blowing. The focus is on being present with what IS: noticing shifts in energy, subtleties in body language, soft moans and vocal cues, eye contact, bubbling emotions.
The more we show up this way for each other in the bedroom, the more deeply we trust, and the more fully we surrender.
This is where transcendental pleasure lives: where presence, acceptance, and surrender intersect.
What does amazing sex look and feel like for you? If you’re feeling less than enthused about sex these days and are ready to ignite a new flame, I invite you to check out the 25 Days of Play at lucilampe.com, and use code OFMEMBER for 50% off.
Here’s to a pleasurable holiday season, Wild Ones! Stay tuned for tomorrow’s juicy Sunday DM. 💋
His body writhed in pleasure as wave after wave of orgasmic sensations pulsated, my hands directing the energy between his heart and his cock. With each breath, his moans grew louder and louder, and I briefly wondered if all the windows were closed…then I realized neither of us really gave a fuck anyway.
We’d never shared a moment quite like this. In fact, just two days earlier, Ryan had expressed his skepticism and disbelief that a human body could *actually* receive as much pleasure as people claimed from energy orgasms. Even though I’d shared with him my own energy orgasm experiences, what about men? How could male bodies have these kinds of orgasms without direct genital stimulation and ejaculation?
“Guess I’ll just have to experience it for myself one day,” he said.
What unfolded two days later was something neither of us expected. We showed up with such deepened presence, love, and care for each other, expanding upon the magic that took place over the weekend at an immersive kink event we attended. As his body’s capacity for pleasure grows, it’s incredibly pleasurable for ME to experience as well.
No wonder he thanks me often for all the work I’ve done within my own body—all the self-pleasure rituals, morning rituals, mindset shifts, and releasing of sexual shame. My body’s increased sensitivity to pleasure unlocked so much more orgasmic energy during sex, and aliveness in LIFE.
This is the greatest gift we give each other: our deepened PRESENCE. And in that presence, all kinds of delicious pleasure can flow.
In this space, whatever our bodies need, can take place. Transformative sexual healing. Intense emotional release. Tender, affirming touch. Anything is possible.
We’re excited and grateful to get to continue our own adventures, expanding our capacity for pleasure, love, connection, and LIFE. Curious about exploring more in your erotic life with your Lover? Check out the new 25 Days of Play at lucilampe.com, and remember to use code OFMEMBER for 50% off. 💦
Here’s to your pleasure and freedom, Wild Ones.❤️🔥
Our greatest present to each other is our PRESENCE. What might that look like for you and your Lover?
In addition to what we love to do in “regular” sex, we also really enjoy taking turns being the giver and the receiver. One gets to take the lead, the other gets to be led.
Ryan has always been a generous giver in the bedroom, long before I was—learning new skills, getting out of his comfort zone (mentally AND physically), and expanding his own capacity for pleasure. We’ve been on quite a ride together, especially through his physical injuries and period of disability he went through. Even now, his body experiences certain chronic pains. You’d never know, just looking at him. Through it all, he continues to show up for me and our family with such powerful presence, love, and passion.
One of my (Luci) greatest joys is being able to give wholeheartedly, without the feeling of obligation or “returning the favor” I carried for so many years.
He’s worthy of it. My Love, my King.
Here’s a glimpse into one of my favorite ways to give Ryan my full presence—where he can lie back, sink into the pleasure, and receive.
Instead of sharing the 45-minute video, I’ve selected a few key parts of the experience: doing some slow, luscious energy work on Ryan, teasing him with my breath + dirty talk (notice how this drives him wild), and finally, the kind of big release that comes with all the anticipation and building up of desire over those 45 minutes.
Stay tuned in the coming weeks for more on how I love to receive fully, from him. ♥️
“Call me daddy,” he said as he slowly penetrated me after after a long tease.
We’d never explored this kind of verbal exchange. In that moment, my brain wanted to intellectualize some sort of potential Oedipal complex, or bring to mind the MANY layers of the father wound I’d healed throughout these past several years.
But the energy was so intense and my body was in such a deep place of surrender, it was exactly what I needed to go even deeper, and he knew it. As he looked into my eyes, tears streaming down my face and body quivering, any hesitation he felt to speak those three words dissolved.
The energy began to expand hours earlier, as we were freely moving our bodies and dancing among friends. A yearning was building. Something was groaning within, aching to be released. It had been an intense ten days of fiery sex, emotionally connected sex, and adventurous sex. We both agreed our bodies physically needed a break, but our souls were just opening up for the next breakthrough.
Fast forward to the end of the night, after the final explosion of orgasmic energy, I WEPT on his chest with my hands on his heart, thanking him for holding this sacred space for me. Sex was the portal, allowing my body to access what my mind didn’t consciously know I needed. I’d never experienced THIS depth of trust and surrender, with anyone, ever. As much as I already felt seen, heard, held, and accepted by him, what was activated in that sacred space took it all to a whole new level.
Even experiences as intense and “heavy” as the one above are made possible by entering this sacred space with an an open-hearted, curious, playful attitude. In that space, what’s meant to flow, will flow. There’s no rigidity, hard set expectations, or judgments.
We’re excited to keep exploring more powerful, fun, kinky, soul-opening experiences together, and sharing the journey with you. If you and your lover are eager to create your own magical sex portals of pleasure, connection, and healing through PLAY, use code “OFMEMBER” for 50% off the 25 Days of Play at lucilampe.com.
We love you, Wild Ones! ♥️
What if, instead of *focusing* on making each other come, making that the goal you both feel pressured to reach…
You seduce his senses with your firm yet loving hands. Melt her resistance away in the warm embrace of your full presence. Penetrate his heart with your steady gaze. Invite her to a space of full surrender with each slow, luscious thrust.
Let—no, MAKE—each other get truly lost in the moment, so deeply IN your bodies and in your pleasure, you both transcends this reality and slip into your very own heaven on earth.
A heaven you’re creating for and with each other.
And when you’re on the edge, just about to free-fall into complete ecstasy…
(Now complete this thought with your own perfect ending to the scene in the comments below 😉)
Note to self: Today, work can wait. Be sure to PLAY. 💦 And, Wild Ones, be sure to check your DMs for access to one of our favorite sexy video clips yet! New to our page? Comment “yes, please!” below, and we’ll make sure you receive the DM.
As we continue decompressing from Friday night’s experience, taking care of ourselves and each other the best we can, more amazing realizations and aha moments are coming up. We’re looking forward to letting you in more on our process of…well, processing stuff like this, navigating edgy new experiences, and so much more. We’d like to let you know, most likely in the month of December, we’ll start doing live Q&As/chats with you a couple times a month. Stay tuned for more details!
Aftercare after every sensual and sexual encounter is a beautiful opportunity to co-regulate as you both come down the highs of being in an altered state (sex, a kinky scene, or otherwise). It’s also a tender, powerful time to integrate the experience, creating feelings of safety in our bodies and nervous system. These “memories” are imprinted within our bodies, whether we’re conscious about it or disregard it in a rush to wherever is next on the agenda.
Aftercare can look like…
Wrapping up in a soft, cuddly blanket.
Taking a hot shower.
Cuddling.
Soft, sensual touch all over the body.
Moaning and sounding, alone or together.
Hair stroking.
A yummy meal.
A nap.
And so much more.
For some experiences that are particularly intense—whether emotionally, physically, energetically, mentally, or all of the above—aftercare may be needed for multiple days.
We learned (the hard way, years ago) to allow plenty of space for integration after new experiences that may be a shock to the nervous system, like the one we had here last night. Space for more feels to emerge. Space for connection and “aha” moments.
This weekend is that space, and within it, Ryan’s body is getting extra love and TLC.💋💋
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You are strong and used to carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, taking one courageous leap after the other in life, expected to have all the answers.
You’d think surrender is weakness, but on the contrary…
Surrender is strength. Surrender is courage. Surrender is wisdom.
It is one of (if not THE) most sacred choices we can make. Within surrender is a deep trust. A visceral resonance you feel in your gut, in your heart, in your bones. A knowing that you are held, lovingly cocooned as you prepare to emerge more powerful than ever.
It was such a pleasure and an honor to witness and experience Ryan’s surrender and trust tonight, even though it was not my hands that tied him up…it was beautiful to see him so well taken care of by those hands, and my hands shared in the experience in other ways.♥️
Create more yummy moments, even (or especially) when challenging situations arise.💋
This week has been full of unexpected twists and intense emotional releases. Each time, we come through stronger and more liberated. ❤️🔥 As we prepare for another weekend of new adventures AND rest, we’re reminded to ask ourselves: What can we do to make this moment more pleasurable?
Here’s to a pleasurable, powerful Friday.
Does it feel like Friday to you, too?? It’s been quite a week, and we’re preparing for more fun experiences and shoots in the coming weeks. We’ll be sharing more spicy content and offering more exclusive access to video footage on Saturdays or Sundays (TBD, depending on each weekend). Stay tuned, Wild Ones! In the meantime, to get a sneak peak (photo) into what we’ll be sharing this weekend, tip $5 on this post.❤️🔥
My Love…you got me, I got you.
Through the seasons that are difficult to navigate, the emotions that are painful to embody, the paths that are terrifying to travel.
It’s you and me.
Beyond the logical communication, physical intimacy, or emotional connection, lies a spiritual and energetic oneness. Not the kind that is fated or destined, but rather CHOSEN.
The kind that compels us out of our comfort zones and challenges even OUR own status quo, time and time again. Always creating, exploring, expanding, and opening our hearts with each newfound pleasure and rediscovered pain.
This “US” is like a living, breathing entity, flowing and growing from the “YOU” and “ME” we individually cultivate.
As we tread new waters yet again, I’m more excited than ever to do this with you.
Thank you for choosing you. Thank you for choosing me. Thank you for choosing us.❤️🔥
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I’m not in “good hands.”
I’m in capable, trustworthy hands.
Hands worthy of my surrender.
Hands that have held me in the chaos of my pain.
Hands that have wiped away my salty tears.
Hands that have learned my most forbidden pleasures.
Hands that I can trust to rest when they need to rest, to withdraw when they are giving beyond their capacity. Hands I can trust to take care of themselves AND truthfully request when they need my care.
When your arms are heavy and you begin to lose your grip, even when it feels as if they’ve betrayed me…I can trust you to honor your heart and your commitment...
To you. To me. To us.
This is the dance, and this is what makes our dance powerful. The willingness to ebb and flow, acknowledge our fuck-ups, and expand our capacity…together.
“Catch her dancing in her feelings. They begin to grow larger and larger.
The highest parts of you yearn to know and feel more, however you become disoriented by the apparent chaos.
Man needs chaos in order to create order. Yet holding the feminine outside of himself can be daunting, risky and fearful.
You desire to be close, but know not how to enter into proximity.
She cries. She shares. She darts from here to there. She directs anger towards herself. She crumbles to the unknown.
She searches for stability. A quiet consistent compassion.
It’s too late. You’ve let the moment pass. You’re now consumed with your pain.
You’ve made her natural expression your responsibility. Your fault. Your pain.
Now it’s yours. But you can’t hold it. You feel rejected. Blamed. Shamed. You desire to fix and your frustration creeps.
She feels you pull away. Create distance and she experiences your little boy weep. Now it’s about you, when it was never about you in the way you thought.
…All the “chaos” needed in order to be ordered was your non-judgment.
You have “failed”... well you at least believe you have. Now you act from this place. You express from this space.
Your nervous system panics, it races, you attempt to force suggestion after suggestion after solution.
You’re losing her. She feels isolated. Alone. Not seen. Hurt. Abandoned.
She yearns for consistent compassion and safety. You yearn to be appreciated. She yearns for stability through her chaos.
She asks you to put your ego to the side. He asks you to love him through his temporary wobble. You both feel an ease.
Body to body…heart to heart…
Energy rushed rapidly through you both as you reconcile.
Healing. Growing. Expanding. Evolving.”
- Stefanos Sifandos
Good morning, Wild Ones! Who else likes to start their mornings with a cozy squeeze? 🥰 Check your messages (sending in progress!) if you’d like to see and hear a little more. Here’s to a beautiful Sunday!
Friday reminder that sex doesn’t have to be so serious. Having a curious, playful vibe sets the stage for truly incredible sex. And, not to mention, takes a LOT of pressure off of making it perfect or performative. After all, perfection is not realistic! let’s give ourselves space to be human.😉
One of the big takeaways from our weekend at the Eros & Kink event last month was the concept of “oopsies” and “ouchies.” Was that a bit too much? Too hard? Accidental pinch? *Unwelcome* pain? Oopsie! Let’s acknowledge it and course-correct. This allows for deeper connection, trust-building, and PLEASURE in the bedroom (or wherever you’re exploring with your lover).
So go forth and have fun. Connect. Feel. Be. PLAY. 💋💦 Here’s to a beautiful weekend, Wild Ones!
Eyes locked into one another’s gaze, hand over his heart, radiant energy bursting from his cock, how can I NOT smile? These are moments of bliss.
What’s more, the bliss and pleasure extends far beyond sex. This aliveness permeates the very fabric of our lives, inviting us to approach the seemingly mundane with renewed playfulness and curiosity.
A life of pleasure. A life of love. That is what sex CAN unlock.
As we prepare to move in early 2022, we’ve been doing a fair share of grieving, preparing to leave this space. Many of my most healing moments have happened right here, in this bed and in this room. If these walls could speak, they’d tell of an incredible journey of pain, healing, release, resolution, reclamation, magic, connection, reconciliation…MYGOD, where would we begin.
For now, we’ll simply continue to show up with full presence and a playful, passionate energy, sharing more bits and pieces of our journey with you.
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Here’s to a beautiful Thursday, Wild Ones.
His warm breath in my ear.
His soft tongue on my neck.
His hands slowly wandering…touching oh-so-gently.
His fingertips grazing the innermost crevices of my thighs….swirling around my yoni, but not quite touching her.
Building anticipation, swelling desire, making me BEG him to rip off my favorite panties.
Mmm. It drives me fucking wild. ❤️🔥 This is the art of the tease, and he’s learned it well.
Wild Queens, I encourage you to courageously share with your lover what you crave. Wild Kings, I challenge you to slow down with your lover and see how they respond.
And if you’d like to see a close up of Ryan enjoying his favorite treat after the tease, send a $10 tip for a more exclusive peek.
