ꜱʟᴀᴠᴇ ᴘᴀᴍᴘᴇʀꜱ ɪᴛꜱ ɢᴏᴅᴅᴇꜱꜱ // gentle femdom, feet //
Not all elements of femdom are intense! My slaves have the responsibility for the more gentle tasks of pampering Me. Brushing My hair, washing My body in the shower/passing Me products, lathering My body in lotion, massaging Me… all of it are basic necessities in My world.
After I returned from a run, I released the beta from its cage and let it smelly My sweaty clothes. Then I took it downstairs and brought it into the shower with Me. Look how obedient and calm My slave is in the shower. Many of you wouldn’t be able to handle being in My presence in this manner because you are kinksters, not true submissives. A true submissive state is reached when one can be in the presence of a naked Goddess, yet maintain complete focus on the task of doing what She wants, how She wants. The eroticism of the moment becomes subsumed beneath the priority of serving Her. True focus and commitment. I'm sure this slave was going nuts in side being at My feet while I shower, lathering My body in soap. But it never showed it. After our shower, I had the slave brush My hair out while I drained betas online. I love gentle femdom!
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ʙʀᴇᴀᴋꜰᴀꜱᴛ ꜱᴇʀᴠɪᴄᴇ // butt play, shock collar, cock & ball pain, domestic slavery, human furniture, sissy, spit //
Everything about My life should be as easy as possible. I put a lot of thought in the front end figuring out how to simplify servitude. One special tool I use is a vibrating butt plug. This particular model has a range of 30 feet and the bluetooth signal is strong enough to penetrate walls. My slaves can be in one end of the home and can be summoned with the simple click of a button. When I first got into this lifestyle I was using a little bell to summon main slave. But us Millenials love our tech, so I levelled up and here we are! Summoning this sissy bitch for breakfast just got far more interesting 😄
This pathetic slave had to try to prepare breakfast for Me while I was repeatedly activating the butt plug. I love how jilted it gets when I turn it on. As it made My breakfast, I lounged by the pool. When breakfast was ready, I turned the slave into a human table and enjoyed My breakfast off its back as if it doesn't exist. Of course, I shared My breakfast with the poor idiot, but in a very special way...
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ᴄᴀɢᴇ ʜᴜᴍɪʟɪᴀᴛɪᴏɴ // dog cage, spitting, verbal humiliation //
I really cannot express how much I love dog cages. Although My love for this submission tool knows no limits, My use of dog cages is usually met with two disparate reactions from subs. On the one hand, using the dog cage is a draw for many. I get a lot of new requests from prospective submissives who specifically reach out to Me because they're enamoured by the idea of being constrained in a cage. On the other hand, many subs share with Me that My love of dog cages - and their likely, inevitable confinement to them - is one of the main reasons why they feel a bit deterred from going deeper in their training with Me.
Although seemingly different classes of subs, at the core I believe all subs share a magnetism to the dog cage. It's just that for one class of subs, this is the pinnacle of their wettest dreams whereas for others it symbolizes a depth of submission and humiliation that they promised themselves they'd never venture into. For the latter, of course, the deterrent is also the draw. Put another way, subs who fear the cage paradoxically want/need it precisely because of how much they fear it. I know I'm preaching to the choir here, but for those subscribers who are new to domination and don't know as much about the underlying psychology of it, a core part of this kink is being made to humiliating tasks that one would never thought they'd do in a million years. That is, subs desire the "I can't believe I am doing this" feeling. They desire to have their minds and bodies so heavily controlled by an external influence that their egos become completely obliterated in the process of humiliation. For some, being a grown human confined into an animal cage stirs that feeling, that complete loss of control and loss of ego or sense of self. So this is what I mean when I say that although some subs love the idea of being put in a dog cage and some hate it, they all crave it. They simply differ to the degree to which they admit to themselves, and to Me, about how badly they want to be trapped and confined like a mutt.
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Dating vanilla men is so much fun. Generally, the more time a vanilla man spends with a vanilla Woman, the stronger grasp he has on who She is and what She is about. The opposite is true when they date Me. At face value, I present very vanilla, very “normal”. In the early stages of dating, I typically lead with My sensual side. I even allow the power dynamic to be more-or-less on even-footing (well, sort of. I’ll always have the advantage, but I’ll let the man think he’s got some sort of leverage with Me to make him be at ease). At this point in the dating game, Men typically take Me to be this seductive-but-sweet girl who is simultaneously attentive and assertive. Well-rounded, they think. They quickly file Me into the category of Women they wish to introduce to their families, putting Me on-track to fulfill their goals of marriage and family formation.
And then, after a night of fucking, followed by a long morning of making love, I’ll peel back those layers and start telling the man about My love for dominance. At first the guy thinks I’m just sharing some kinky desire or fantasy with him. Most people have these. But as the conversation unfolds, he comes to realize that dominance isn’t this thing that I like to explore in My sex life, but rather My entire life is constructed around owning and building a global army of submissive men. He hears how I make them clean My home, chauffeur Me, do tasks for My friends, organize and execute dinner parties, accompany Me on trips around the world (on their dime). He learns that I’m highly creative in hearing the novel and ingenious ways i control, punish, humiliate, and also reward My beta boys. In a single conversation, his entire perception of Me and who he truly thought I was becomes destabilized and nothing makes sense. He simply cannot consolidate the multiplicity of My personas. One of them once said to Me, “Maria, all humans are like onions; we all have layers that get peeled back as we get to know each other. But with you, I feel like I’m not peeling back layers, but rather running into completely a foreign vegetable” 😂
I have lots of good stories about these men that maybe I’ll save for another post. My current boyfriend was the only exception in My dating experiences. Although I was doing My usual vanilla performance on our first date, he saw right through this. He obviously couldn’t exactly guess I was a lifestyle Domme. But he knew something was up, that I wasn’t as normal or vanilla as I was presenting. I actually ended up telling him on that first date as we were sharing a bottle of wine, and there was not even a glimpse of surprise on his face. He is very emotionally intelligent, but I attribute his intuition to the fact that he had dated another lifestyle Domme before Me. He therefore had prior exposure to both a Domme and Her lifestyle, so the vegetable he was on a date with wasn’t all that foreign.
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ᴄʜᴀꜱᴛɪᴛʏ ʟᴏᴄᴋ-ᴜᴘ // chastity, humiliation, sissy //
On day one I also locked My sissy into her little chastity cage. Betas always approach Me asking Me how they can become better versions of themselves for Me. My answer always is chastity. When slaves serve Me, I deny them the pleasure of being able to masturbate and have orgasms. They need to be on their best behaviour, completely attentive. If I let this sissy just play with her ugly little clitty on vacation whenever she wanted, she’s basically just getting pleasure from being around Me. Real-time betas do not get to derive pleasure from our interactions. They are here to serve Me, not serve themselves.
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ᴘᴀꜱꜱᴘᴏʀᴛ ᴄᴏɴꜰɪꜱᴄᴀᴛɪᴏɴ // dog cage, humiliation, foot tease //
On day one, My priority was to secure the sissy’s position as My domestic bitch for the course of the next two weeks. The problems with most submissives who approach Me is that they approach when they’re horny. They create these elaborate plans to serve Me, and verbally (and financially) commit to these plans with utmost certainty. About half of them don’t end up even showing up because by the time they’ve jerked off, they no longer feel submissive. This is why I won’t even speak to betas about real-time unless they’re appropriately compensating Me for the time it takes to have a conversation about these make-believe plans. Among the ones who do show up, a decent proportion of them realize their fantasy of submission is far departed from reality of submission. The fantasy that they’ve constructed embeds their kinks and desires within the act of doing whatever it is I want or need. That is, they believe that what they want is whatever I want. The depths to which they trick themselves into believing this is actually quite wild. I go into granular, concrete detail about what to expect in serving Me. I leave little room for imagination. They agree to these expectations profusely, and express their excitement that we are absolutely on the same page.
But then the opportunity to serve actually approaches and the servitude unfolds in the exact ways I’ve carefully delineated to them. And all of a sudden, they realize that they were never here to serve Me the way I expect to be served. They were here to have their kinks and fantasies fulfilled, and very little of that had anything to do with what I want or need from a beta. At this point they either leave, or they give such mediocre service that I dismiss them.
I knew sissy Casey would not give mediocre service, as I have sessioned with her before and she’s very attentive. However, I wasn’t ruling out the possibility she would leave earlier than expected in the event that servitude became too laborious or intense. Having the option to leave is antithetical to slavery; it is, in fact, by definition of slavery that someone does not have the option to leave. I thereby confiscated all of Casey’s belongings, or rather the ones she would need to return to Canada. Although I would have bet Casey would stay through the entire duration, I nonetheless needed to show her that once in My grasp, her servitude to Me was anything but optional. Confiscating her passport, wallet, keys, etc., was but one way to make this point.
Besides the upfront financial contribution, I confiscate the slaves’ belongings upon arrival to ensure it cannot change its mind. In the case of this slave, I took its passport, wallet, and house keys. Once you show up at My door you are fully owned and there is no going back early unless I dismiss you. Keep that in mind next time you beg to serve Me on vacation.
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Slaves who know Me in real life know that massage is an important requirement of being a slave. The problem with this is that most men don’t know what it takes to give a good massage. I sent My main slave to get massage training just prior to covid and it learned a lot. I wish I had capitalized on this much earlier, but I was unaware there were massage schools that offer classes outside of their licensed programs. Anyways, up until that point I had main slave sending Me for weekly massages at My favourite spas, but I’d much prefer to have massages on demand by My own slave. With the new slew of slaves that have been serving Me, I have been getting them to prepare their massage skills for their service to Me. On the whole, their massages have been mediocre and certainly not of the calibre required to touch a body like Mine. But I will say that they greatly improve at each opportunity. The massage in this clip is one of the more lacklustre ones. In all fairness, I did not pre-warn this beta of My massage expectations so it did not have time to study massage techniques before it arrived to serve Me. I didn’t let this massage go on further than 5-6 mins because no massage is better than a mediocre one. I did, however, thoroughly enjoy torturing this loser with the opportunity to massage Me fully nude. At this point, the slave was 4 days in chastity and full-time servitude. Several days of denying it orgasms while abusing it and walking around in lingerie or less truly did a number on its well-being. You can hear how heavily it was breathing while it rubbed lotion all over My perfect naked body. There are no words in the English language that can adequately describe how deep into the subspace this beta fell after this massage. As you can see, My domination approach has a multi-faceted nature. To get what I want, I not only rely on the more common forms of domination such as aggression, coercion, manipulation, degradation, and physical strength, but also the more subtle, overlooked forms like a sensual massage. Massages can truly drive My betas mad to the point where they’ll do anything for Me.
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✷A little bio about Me✷
I have been a lifestyle Domme for 7 or more years. I got into this through a friend who was a pro-Domme. My friend was approached by a sub who wanted to serve Her in a lifestyle setting, but She was relocating to a different city so She could not accept his request. He asked if She knew anyone who would be open to the idea of having a domestic bitch, and She thought of Me. He approached Me, asking if he could clean My condo on a weekly basis and do errands for Me. He also told Me I could be as mean to him as I’d like, or do whatever I wish to him. Of course, I said yes.
Skip forward six years, “he” is now an “it”. The slave has been serving Me as a domestic slave, errand bitch, vacation slave, etc. on both a part-time and full-time basis depending on the month. During the summer months and on vacations, it lives with Me, sleeping on My floor, serving Me full-time. During the other seasons, it resides at home and comes over daily to do its tasks. The slave is married with children and has been serving Dommes for 15 or more years. Its wife has no idea, they have always lived very separate lives. My slave having a very intensive career that requires it to be gone/travelling a lot for work, allowing it to spend a lot of time serving Me. (In practice, when it is ‘gone for work’, it is either on slavecation with Me or sleeping on My floor at My home). For the last two years, I have co-owned this slave with My boyfriend. My boyfriend has long been into kink/domination as well, so it was an easy transition to include him in My life. I also share My slaves with My friends.
On the side, I’ve also kept part-time slaves in My city and in other locations around the world. They fill-in for My main slave when its family/work/Me life gets too hectic. The slave is actually the one who usually procures these slaves for Me, because it’s its responsibility to make sure all My needs are always fulfilled. I also like to do sessions from time-to-time - it’s fun for Me to do new things to new slaves. My main slave is a seasoned vet, so dominating it gets a bit boring for Me (except for public humiliation - this is something the slave has never adjusted to).
Since covid, My slave has had to take a break from serving because its work transitioned from office to remote work. Because of this, it no longer has an excuse for its wife as to why it needs to leave the house regularly. Whereas its office is 5 minutes from My condo, its home is 45 minutes away, making it difficult to explain to its wife why it would be gone for hours at a time. Once in a while, the slave will come by to drop things off for Me/run errands, but that’s about it. It’s been a huge change for us, but I’ve been making it work by filling in some parts of his servitude with new slaves. This has been met with uneven success, as you can see based on My posts.
Up until April 2020, I have been completely offline, never sharing My life with anyone but people close to Me. Covid afforded Me some time I did not have before, given time constraints of My career, social life, romantic life, etc. Joining the online femdom community has been a mixed blessing. On the one hand, I enjoy sharing pieces of My life with femdom lovers, connecting with other Dommes, and having access to new submissives. It has also been very lucrative, especially in the realm of financial domination of which I also specialize. On the other hand, it takes a lot of time creating, managing and uploading content to 6 platforms. Prior to joining the online world, I never had to think about turning My femdom life into content. Sharing content is fun, but the task of creating it and putting it onto all platforms is a time-intensive one.
Right now, I have been travelling. My main slave cannot come for obvious reasons, but I have slaves in many places. I’ve been well-served. Most of what you’ll see in the next while will be slavecation content. Different slaves have different needs for anonymity/privacy, so what I share from each part of My vacation will depend on those concerns as I prioritize privacy over content creation.
That’s My brief bio - I’m certain this post may prompt more questions about the details of My life, including My kinks/fetishes, practices. You are welcome to ask, but note that you must always tribute to speak. I have well over 15k followers across all platforms, many whom are also eager to know more. Your “simple question” is, therefore, not that all simple given I’m inundated with dozens of similarly “simple” questions daily. Furthermore, I divulge a fair amount of My life on OnlyFans, treating this platform a lot like a blog. You can likely find the answer to your question by simply scrolling and studying My feed, should you not be of the tributing type. There’s a life hack for you.
In the meantime, be sure to like all of My posts - I do notice who is engaging, and who is not. Tributing/tipping on posts is also a very smart move. Because I am a micromanager, I keep a lot of lists, lists of subs who engage and tribute regularly.
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