You know we had to check out the playrooms on the first night!! We only knew about the main playrooms at that point...it was a 2 level outer deck, the upper level overlooking the lower like a balcony.
Playroom Lower Deck: Couples Only; Must be naked to enter
Playroom Upper Deck: Anything Goes; Can be clothed; People with hall passes could enter solo and play with other couples or groups.
Early the first night, there wasn't anybody in the upper area, but there were a few couples in the lower area. They were real performers, so we gave them an audience for a while...who am I to deny them what they really want?? It was pretty hot...and yet we were a little concerned that so few people were indulging. We had this idea that the place would be crawling with horny people fucking 24/7, ya know?
On some lifestyle cruises, you can be nude pretty much anywhere. It wasn't that way on this cruise, there were certain areas you could be nude...the pools and sundecks, and several playrooms on the ship. Girls could be topless in the Casino, too. And you could wear completely sheer outfits anywhere on the ship. And people most definitely did just that. š„µš„µš„š„š„
I was SO EXCITED the first night, walking the promenade...I'm not sure how to describe the promenade (I'll post a pic later, based upon 'likes', I don't think you guys are very interested in seeing more than one ship pic a day ššš¤£). But for now, it's basically set up like a cozy city street with storefronts...but it's cut out of the middle of the ship, so you can see up several stories and there are winding staircases leading up to the next floor that overlooks all of the activity on the promenade.
One of the things that made it really exciting was that I got to see some of my favorite lifestyle podcasters in real life (from a distance because I didn't want to be a creepy stalker - even though I've super-stalked them on the internet trying to figure out what they looked likeš²š¬š¤·āāļø) They don't post face pics, but I was pretty sure I'd recognize them based upon body types, hair styles and other bodily features. And I was totally right. I was like a total groupie when I saw them, hitting my husband and pointing like a school girl.
I didn't go up and talk to them. I was honestly thinking I'd wait until later in the cruise rather than bombarding them on night one. But I never saw them again the whole cruise, and I'm still kinda mad at myself for not stopping to tell them how much I enjoyed their show. I mean, there were 4500 passengers on this cruise, so I shouldn't be surprised. But I spotted them on night 1, so I figured it wouldn't be hard to spot them again!
Anyway, I can be so shy and self-conscious until I get to know people, but once I know them I'm super outgoing and comfortable. That's DEFINITELY something I had to get over myself about while on this cruise!
This was our view from our room...we faced other rooms with an open courtyard path below and a view of the pool area above. If you zoom in, you can see some of the pool chairs up there. I took this pic on the last day just before we left to avoid getting anyone else in the shot, so I'd be able to post it here. BUT we FREQUENTLY saw people fucking in the rooms across from us, or on the balconies across from us. And we ALWAYS woke up to the view of a bunch of naked people by the pool. We were literally inundated with sexiness on this cruise pretty much 24/7.
In her defense, I think she may have been feeling a little gun-shy because of a recent incident that had occurred in her relationship. She and her hubs have been in the lifestyle for a long time, and apparently a hot vanilla woman in the neighborhood knew it.
They were all at the same neighborhood party, and this vanilla neighbor of hers started making out with her husband on the sly...Ms. Vanilla had pulled her hubs to the side as if she were sneaking around, and then never mentioned the little make-out sesh to the wife later. Instead she just profusely flirted with hubby as if they shared some big secret. The wife didn't find out about it from her hubby until after the party had ended and felt betrayed that he had made out with someone who believed she was pulling one over on the wife.
So yeah, there can be drama in the lifestyle if boundaries and communication aren't crystal clear. I mean, there's risk even if they ARE clear...emotions can come up in unexpected ways. So if you're considering the lifestyle, you have to go into it with a strong relationship, a lot of trust and with your partners best interest (and the best interest of your relationship) at the forefront.
Soooo, tell me...are you considering the lifestyle? Already involved in it? What's your take on drama in the lifestyle? Ever experienced it?
As the ship disembarked, we were chatting with the people around us. Everyone exchanging lifestyle stories. Since we're new to the whole thing, we were often given little tips and the occasional warning about how things could go wrong. One woman told me I should be prepared that my hubby might like sex with someone else better than sex with me...and that might lead to him leaving me.
And apparently I'm arrogant as fuck, because I literally almost laughed in my head.
I HIGHLY doubt that could ever happen...because we don't just have amazing sex. We are each other's favorite person despite the fact that we're together now 24/7 since we both work from home. The idea of either of us preferring anyone else just seems so incredibly far-fetched.
BUT let's just say he really loved something that another woman did to or with him sexually - it's not a competition, I WANT him to feel good...why wouldn't I just incorporate whatever she did into my own little treasure chest of treats? That's my thought on the whole thing...I'll let you guys know if it ever changes!
But I'm curious about your thoughts...would you be worried that your significant other might enjoy sex with someone else more than with you? Would your significant other be worried about that? Tell me!
We entered the ship and everyone was scantily clad but not nude. Everyone has to keep their clothes on while in port. The captain makes an announcement when the ship is far enough out that people can begin to disrobe. As you can imagine, disembarkment from ports is quite the celebration on these pervy sex cruises...all those horny people anxious to get naked and fuck! lol
We did see people flashing each other and just being generally playful. And LOTS of excited reunions, which was really fun to see. For some reason we didn't expect that people would really get to know each other beyond the superficial sex stuff on these adventures. But still, cheers to superficial sex stuff too!!! lolol
We quickly went to our room, checked to see if the alcohol we stashed in our bags made it through...it did, woooohoooo!!! The alcohol package was $90 a day per person $1260 for alcohol??? We don't drink very much in general, so it definitely wasn't worth the price tag, but we wanted to have a little something, and the cruise God's were apparently on our side!
We were soooooo excited and curious as we boarded the ship! OUR FIRST SEX CRUISE!!!!! AAAAAaaaaahhhhhhh!!!!
I should back up a minute though...we took a shuttle to the ship from the cruise parking lot. Of course everyone who was waiting for the shuttle was low-key checking each other out, wondering whether or not we were all gonna be on the same cruise...whether or not we might be seeing each other naked later. Which was kind of titillating in and of itself.
When the driver finally arrived, he announced which ship he was looking to shuttle for first (ours), at which point it was semi-awkward open-season on ogling.
Once we boarded the shuttle, the guy in the seat behind us broke the ice...'Sooooo, are you guys headed for the naughty cruise?' There were 4 of them (2 couples) and it was their 6th lifestyle cruise. So that made for some entertaining chatter as we approached the cruise terminal. Their boarding time was 2:30, so they took off for their line when we arrived, but we got to see them several more times on the ship and each time was like a mini family reunion with our favorite relatives.
Seriously guys, the people on this ship were the happiest, nicest people on the planet...at least for the week of the cruise. I mean, who wouldn't be happy AF on a sex cruise, right??
Our view as we disembarked on our 7 night sex cruise at 5pm, Florida timeā¦the sun was going down and the weather was just peeeerfect.
Everyone had to test negative for COVID within 48 hours of departureā¦which made it a mask-free cruise. I mean, it would be kinda challenging to make-out with strangers with masks on, wouldnāt it??
Hi my babes....soooo, it's NATIONAL STAY HOME BECAUSE YOUR WELL DAY...but I'm not well. How is THAT ok?? Just some upper respiratory thing I've had for the past few days from burning the candle at both ends, I'm sure. TOTALLY worth it. 100%!!!
In honor of my birthday (HOLY CRAP, AM I REALLY 51 ALREADY???) and in apology for how busy I've been the past few weeks, I'm reposting a little vid that has been requested several times by returning subs from way back in May. It's just a little pussy play, but apparently you guys really like that? Something about being able to imagine your cock sliding into that warm, wet, wanting place...who knew? š¤·āāļøšš
I used to do one little paid video clip each month. I'd send it for free to my top fan of the month as a show of gratitude, and charge a small fee for anyone else who wanted to see it. Maybe I'll start doing that again? What do ya think?
Anyway, just tip me $5 (or more if you're feeling super inspired) on this post, and I'll send the vid right over to ya!
SEXY TERMS YOU SHOULD KNOW! Have you ever considered dipping your toes in āthe lifestyleā? Let me prepare you with some basic terms youāll want to know, so youāll feel like a seasoned pro walking in for the first time!
CHEATING Cheating within the lifestyle is a bit different than cheating in monogamous relationships. In the lifestyle, cheating is any sexual activity with others without spouseās knowledge and/or consent.
Edit: I hate it when my reminder posts accidentally go out as an actual post. š¬ I wanted to remember to create some French Toast Content...which I didn't end up doing...and I forgot to delete the reminder. Oops!
But I ABSOLUTELY LOVE that you guys so generously liked this post. You are clearly my super fans and I appreciate you so freakin' much!!! ššš
It's National MAKE YOUR OWN HEAD DAY, soooo that's what I'm up to...what about you?? Please tell me you're making your own head today too...then tell me all about it šš
Happy Thanksgiving, my loves. I am SO INCREDIBLY THANKFUL to get to play with you guys on here. THANK YOU for subscribing and for all of the sexy fun you bring to my life!!
Now pull my panties aside and fuck me...don't make me ask twice!!
So this is a REALLY busy week in the Sweet household! Itās my Birthday weekā¦and Thanksgivingā¦and Black Fridayā¦and my sonās marching in his schoolās championship football game this weekend (which is a long drive for us)ā¦and my nephew is a star football player for his team, which also made it to state in their division, which of course, we canāt miss! Soooo we are going to be CRAZY BUSY every day this week.
Iām so excited to share my experiences on our first ālifestyleā cruise with youā¦but I really want to take my time writing those posts so you guys can feel like you were there with us. So Iām going to hold off on giving you all the details on that until next week. Donāt worry, Iāll still make daily posts and respond to DMs in the meantime!
We disembark from the ship todayā¦then the long drive home. Canāt wait to start updating you guys on Tuesday with all the sexy haps on the boat!!! Hope you made some fun memories to share with me too!!
SEXY TERMS YOU SHOULD KNOW! Have you ever considered dipping your toes in āthe lifestyleā? Let me prepare you with some basic terms youāll want to know, so youāll feel like a seasoned pro walking in for the first time!
BI-CURIOUS Someone that is curious, interested in or has had limited bisexual experience.
This can get confusing on lifestyle appsā¦because different people have different definitions of it. Some people recognize the ālimited bisexual experienceā part. And some people use this term to mean that theyāre open to some touching with the same sex, but not all touching. For example, a woman may identify as ābi-curiousā if sheās willing to play with some titties but doesnāt have any interest in pussy play. Soooo, be flexible when you see this term, and know that not everyone means the exact same thing when they classify themselves this way.
Itās Day 1 of our first sex cruise!!! A day āat seaāā¦which basically means a āplay dayā. We donāt have WiFi on the ship, but I canāt wait to tell you all about it when we return!! I scheduled some posts throughout the week and I will catch up with DMs, comments and hopefully lots of juicy stories upon our return!!
Get out there and have some sexy fun while Iām gone so you can tell me all about it upon my return!!
Too harsh or on target? I'm always a little uncomfortable with 'normal'/'abnormal' terminology, but I think I appreciate the sentiment given all the sexual judgment in the world.
THE NEW JOY OF SEX by Alex Comfort, MD DSC
Pornography ā Name given to any sexual literature somebody is trying to suppress. Most normal people enjoy looking at sex books and reading sex fantasies, which is why abnormal people have to spend so much time and money suppressing them.
