Do you know what a dollar is? Have you ever worked and paid all your bills from rent, school, books, food, health care, car insurance, phone bills, etc.? Or did your family give you a handout for everything and anything? I realized many people who got the help really don't understand how hard it is to make a dollar. Do you understand? Did you have to work at a y*ung age and pay for things out of your pocket? I started babysitting at 12 years old for $2 an hour almost every weekend. Yes, that was in the late '80s, but it taught me about money and how hard it was to make a dollar. I was jealous of others who got a handout, but it also taught me to be independent self-assured, and I had to figure out what I wanted to do in my life. I always had a creative business mind, and I wanted to go to college and get my degree. At 18, I started San Diego State, and I knew I had to figure something out with my life.I did not want loans because, in the long run, I would be paying them off forever. Are you paying off loans and credit cards, and you feel like it will never end? How much interest are you paying, and how much will it be when you finally pay it off? I went a different route than most, but I am so happy I followed my sexy journey into stripping. I became a stripper in 2008 while I was still at San Diego State University. This helped me pay for college, buy property, travel, save money and encouraged me to start my own business in 2007.EbyResa striptease lap dance business started my career as an entrepreneur and led me into a whole new world in the sex industry. This is still my life and my passion many years later. I started as a stripper, built a business teaching striptease for everyday women, and got my doctorate in human sexuality. This #tbt photo was taken for my first drresa.com site for my sexology coaching business. My new drresa.com e-commerce website is launched! Please check it out and tell me what you think? It was a long road but worth every moment. xoxo. DR #drresa @drresa
Do you know how to remove your clothes sexy, slowly, and seductively for yourself and or a partner? Have you been practicing the different striptease moves from the DVDs? Are you practicing ways to take off your clothes during a striptease dance? Please check my video clip from EbyResa's Striptease Lap Dance DVD on how to look sexy, confident while moving your body, teasing and enjoying a striptease while removing each piece of clothing. Remember, you are amazing, courageous, fun, exciting, and ready to be your best version! Practice, patience, persistence, and passion will make this tease so much more thrilling for you. Yesterday's blog post was on flirting. Check that post and bring those tips and tricks in while you practice. Eye contact, smiling, slow down and enjoy the moments. Are you interested in watching more videos? Download and practice all the striptease lap dance moves on my site and buy the DVD/streaming on Amazon. Coming soon videos for purchase on my e-commerce. Can you believe it is the New Year! This is a great day to start living your true authentic sexual self. Are you ready and interested in Ebyresa's DVDs, gift cards for coaching, sex toys, and more? They are great, sexy, fun gift ideas! Today borrow or buy a man's white button-down shirt or put on sexy lingerie, a bathing suit, or an outfit right from your closet. Remember to keep your partner engaged. If you enjoy what you are doing, that is the most important. You loving yourself first and enjoying these moves are healthy sexy positive changes to a happier life! Feel sexy, feel good and enjoy! What are you doing today to start your journey? Are you ready to join mine? xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
What are you doing today to start your week off on a sexy note? Today is a great day to take time and enjoy yourself. I would love to hear your stories on self-care, self-love, and steps to become your true authentic sexual self! Do you take an hour out of your day just for yourself? Have you ever masturbated or learned to enjoy your free body and vessel? What are the reasons you are not taking time to learn and love your mind and body? If you love yourself first, you will be in such a better place to live your life passionately and share your love with others. Doesn't that sound lovely and easy? It's not an easy road to break down walls and change your daily life, but if nothing changes, nothing changes. Are you really happy with your life right now? What would you do differently to make your life more pleasurable? I have my own challenges, anxieties, and excuses to not masturbate daily or take an hour for me. When I take that hour off, I am more balanced, happy, and connected to myself and who I want to become.
Time for ourselves is precious, special, and worth it. Remember you are sexy, confident, courageous, and aren't you excited to see what's next in your cherished life! Right now, take three sexy breaths, stand tall, stretch your body, smile and enjoy this sexy beautiful day. Good news to share!!! I am super excited to finally launch my Dr. Resa sexy Sexologist e-commerce site by the end of the month. You can order gift cards, online sex coaching, and an online shop to buy my favorite sexy things. xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Are you stressed? What are you stressed about? Is it the weather, your family, your work, money, health, and life that stresses you out? We would love to hear your smart, sexy, healthy ways that lessen your stress levels? Do you do yoga, masturbate, run, do drugs, drink, watch TV, scroll on your phones, eat, meditate, sleep, have sex? These are some of my ways to get out of my head and not stress. It is a daily struggle trying to get out of my head and really be in the now and the moment. This last week I have been more anxious, and I feel like I should not be, but my body chemistry thinks different. It could be my m*nstruation, my sleep, my partying, the tasty food I eat, the medication I take, my bowels, the weather, and or just being. Do you ever think about your gut, body, mind, and free sexy vessel? Most people ignore the most important part of ourselves and put it to the sideline. I am guilty, just like you. Did you know I have been working on a masturbation orgasm tracker? Do you already use a tracker for your bowels (aka p*op), your steps, your food, your period..pretty much anything? This tracker will be able to track all of this, plus figure out your masturbation times and orgasms to help you live your true authentic sexual self! Would you use this MOT app? I would definitely use this tracker to figure out why I am more stressed or happy on certain days and times of the month. Maybe I was having sex or masturbating or releasing and having more orgasms.Maybe we slept more, ate better, did not drink or do drugs as much. What about you? My tracker will be launched soon, but this week my new e-commerce Drresa website will be up and ready for you to book coaching sessions, buy gift cards, DVD streaming, striptease lap dance parties, webinars, and Dr. Resa's favorite sexy things, including sex toys, clothing, lingerie, books, jewelry, educational pieces plus more. xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
Would you travel by yourself? Would you go to the movies by yourself? Would you go to dinner by yourself? What will you do by yourself for at least an hour today? Start small!! Please comment below and tell me how you felt before, during, and after. It may be different, difficult, or out of your comfort zone to do something on your own instead of having a friend, a partner, or a family member with you. What would you do sitting by yourself at a restaurant or sitting alone at the movies? Could you drive cross country on your own (or bring an animal along to keep you company.)I have done all of these by myself, and yes, it is change; it could be scary, there could be challenges, but otherwise, it grows us to be a better person. I m*et amazing people when I am not with someone. It gets me out of my routine to say hello to someone new. While traveling to different places, you m*et all walks of life, and you open your eyes to a whole new world. In 2015 I finished the book Kon Mari The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying. After I read it, I started the process and got rid of many things that did not bring me joy. It cleared my mind from stuff, I never knew where anything was, and I realized what is important to my life moving forward. I was ready to move to New York City, but I knew I had to get rid of my properties for my sanity and lessen my anxiety. I loved my home, but I was ready for the next chapter.In 2016 Romeo, my Shih Tzu mix dog, and I drove from San Francisco to NYC. We took our time at a dude ranch, Yellowstone, Mt Rushmore, Chicago, and enjoyed our sexy warrior road trip. My book is coming soon of the best trip I have ever been on & a blog on how Kon Mari Tidy up changed my life. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? Join my journey! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Have you heard of FOSTA/SESTA? You heard of Backpage and Craiglist, right? I advertised for the past ten years on BP & CL(well, I used to) since Trump signed The Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) and Allowed States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA) are the U.S. Senate and House bills that as the FOSTA-SESTA package became law last April 11, 2018. The bill sounds great to remove sex trafficking, but there’s always a positive side of sex, and that includes me. I am Dr.Resa; sexy sexologist, a consenting adult, a sex worker, ex-stripper, sexologist, sensual masseuse, coach, cammer, speaker, educator, and entrepreneur. What do you think has been happening to me and others since this bill passed? Our free and paid advertising completely shut down, and everything SEX-related is forbidden online. Have you heard of shadowbanned? Facebook and Instagram shadowbanned my Instagram, so the only people who find me are my followers and or if you share my posts and information. Word of mouth, so please keep spreading the word about fosta sesta and how it affects me, others, and you. Any sex-related hashtag, including sexual health, breasts, sexy, and many more, makes it more difficult and illegal to advertise. I started my Ebyresa Striptease Lap Dance Business in 2005. We need sex education (those hashtags are NOW forbidden yet). It is 2022. Wake up, America!! The rich, the powerful, and the controlling ones are taking over through religion and politics, and they are doing a good job. What are we going to do about it? I will be sharing more of my life stories on my blog, social media, Patreon, and Youtube. We need to bring sexy back to America! Remember, it's the New Year, so let's celebrate with learning more, loving & connecting. Remember, we are all here from an orgasm, so let’s start masturbating and connecting with ourselves one orgasm at a time. What is your story? Come explore and live your life to the fullest!! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
What kind of health insurance do you have, and what's your premium? Do you pay for health insurance out of your own pocket, or does your work pay for it? How much is your monthly health insurance premium and deductible? Or do you not have health insurance and hope for the best? What do you think of Obama Care and or a better health care system solution? I am asking all these questions because I feel like I can never move forward or go over the hump of understanding why this system is so corrupt. Are you wondering the same thing? Questioning why we are paying so much, why we are in debt and broke from a health care bill, will we ever feel safe, secure, and healthy in this world controlled by money, power, and politics? With Conservatives in office, you already notice they don't care about you, especially your health. I am fortunate to have health insurance, and I have been covered my whole life. This does not mean it's been an easy road dealing with the health care companies. Do you have any preexisting conditions? My preexisting conditions are high anxiety and ulcerative proctitis. Before Obama Care, my premium and deductible were going up in price, and it was extremely tough to switch to any other company. My health care total fees with Obama Care is around $500 a month. If I did not have Obama Care, I would be paying double (around $1000 a month.)
Who can afford health care, a car, a home, food & all the other extras? Are you all living in debt and on credit cards? What would you like to see in the future to make your life less stressed? Every day, I am working on going over my hump to be the best I can be. I would love to hear your health care stories. The more we share, the more we learn. Did you know I am a sex coach? I offer online talk coaching & I would love to help you figure out healthy ways to be your true authentic sexual self. Remember to breathe, smile & hump more!!! xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
Did you tap your tulips today, aka breast today? Did you know massaging your breast and body, you are moving lymph tissue, your body's energy & bl*od flow! Self-care is very important for your mind, body & soul. I highly recommend practicing breast health every Tuesday with exercise & breath health techniques starting with tap your tulips. What is the tulip? The acupressure point pattern around the breast increases health by increasing movement. The tulip tap focuses on 6 points around the breast (picture it like drawing dots) and connects these dots by tapping your fingertips between the dots making the shape of a tulip flower. From there, extend the tapping down the abdomen to the 2nd toe, tap back up to the abdomen (stomach channel), tap off to the side of the abdomen (liver channel), and tap around the breast again after tapping start a self-breast massage (self-breast massage moves the lymph in the breast and the tulip tap moves the lymph around the breast). There are four steps for your sexy, healthy breast massage. Step 1 - Pump UpStep 2 - Pull OverStep 3 - Brush UpStep 4 - Pull-InAre you interested in a video on how to tulip tap & give yourself or a partner a breast massage? If interested in learning more, my good friend Lara started EssentiallyPink.com in 2006. It is a grassroots self-love movement to shift from our fear-based breast cancer model to one with self-love and breast health. Did you know the cure for breast cancer is healing the body and supporting a lifestyle that supports prevention? Essentially Pink’s model for breast health is perfect for what I talk about all the time! "sexy"- an acronym that stands for "S"- self-breast massage & tulip tap "E"- emotional & environmental connections to breast health "X"- out stress and "Y"- yes healthy foods for breast health. Please share, like, comment, and tell your friends & family that Tuesdays is for breast health day! Xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
Are you enjoying and taking time for yourself & masturbating and letting go the first week of the New Year? What about meditating, yoga, stretching, breathing, walking, exploring, writing,and really slowing down and having fun with yourself first. When we speak our minds, we learn and grow on the way. From the day I started stripping to getting my doctorate in human sexuality, I really feel like I was born to help others and myself to be my true authentic sexual self. In my bio, click the link to enjoy more hilarious, edgy Youtube videos, Instagram, Patreon & TikTok posts from the past year. Watch me sing, ride, eat, pray, smoke weed, plus much more. Many more videos are coming soon in the upcoming year. (When it gets warmer, we will be filming a video driving around New York City in a convertible with the Sybian—stopping around the city passing out the lube, condoms, and sex-positive information on masturbation and plus riding the Sybian on the way. Do you want to win a Sybian or my favorite sex toys and things? Let's make that happen in 2022. What would you like to learn and watch in my videos? So remember to have a sexy day and make the most of this week by smiling more, laughing, and having a fantastic time. Say hi and smile to strangers, family, coworkers, and friends. Ask them how they are doing and really listen and see how they are doing. We all need a hug, a friend, a smile to enjoy and spark every special day and moment. You deserve it. We deserve it. You are sexy, confident, worth it, unique, and are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? I love you sexy ones! xoxo, DR @drresa #drresa
Are you ready to flirt? What is flirting to you? Are you ready to let your hair down and be the sexy, confident person you deserve to be? Remember you are amazing, funtastic, exciting & courageous. Are you ready to make 2022 the best year ever? Flirting helps you connect, smile and it has many health benefits, including building confidence and self-esteem, building positive energy for yourself and others, making you feel good, helping reduce your stress, and strengthening and building your relationships. Wikipedia defines flirting as a social and sexual behavior involving verbal or written communication, as well as body language, by one person to another, either to suggest interest in a deeper relationship with the other person or, if done playfully, for amusement. What are your favorite ways to flirt with somebody? We also need to be aware of respecting each other while we flirt. Everyone has different boundaries, upbringings, and diverse ways to flirt that works for them. Take notice and ask if it's okay to hug, touch, speak, or flirt that way. Make sure you consent to the flirting and the progression of whatever happens with you two. It is nice to go with the flow, let yourself go, and flirt away, but it will be a better experience if you notice your surroundings, breathe, take time, enjoy the moment, and make sure it is a safe, comfortable setting more flirting to happen. How to flirt?#1 Eye contact & it is the way to the soul & best & easiest way to start flirting #2 smile and really smile ear to ear, #3 start talking, initiate a conversation, complement each other & use body language #4 break the touch barrier but remember to ask first! Next Friday, I will blog about dating in the digital world & how to evolve in 2022 with dating apps, flirt text, and be safe, sexy, and smart on the way! Please comment below on how you are going to flirt tonight? How did your flirting go & how did you feel? Xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
Do you have a friend, a family member, or a coworker that you share all your secrets, challenges, and life stories? Can you call them up or visit them right now if you need a shoulder to cry on and or laugh with? I asked a handful of people of all ages this question, and most people don’t have that friend they can count on and get deep and raw with. Would you like a friend who you can talk to and be your true authentic self? Wouldn’t it be nice to talk to someone who is not judging you and wanting to get to know the real you? This kind of person is a particular person in your life, who understands you, who wants the best for you, and you deserve to have somebody like this in your life. Do you have someone you care about and someone who cares about you? We all need to talk, cry, laugh, listen, and sometimes hear. So who do you talk to you? Where do you go when you need help with some tough questions answered? Do you go to church, talk to your dog, or talk to yourself or the bartender? Does it get to the point where you drink more, do drugs, eat bad, etc. If we don’t have that outlet to let our voice be heard, we may choose unhealthy habits to compensate for our true selves. I think we all have been there, but there are many healthy, safe sexy ways to be noticed, heard, speak our stories and truths, and have someone who listens. Luckily I have an amazing support group that has helped me grow to be the best I can be. I am still learning, loving, and breathing along the way. Every day is a new day and a new life experience. Who do I talk to? Twice a month, I talk to my therapist Jennifer. We have been meeting up and talking for the last 20 years. Therapy has saved my life, and I recommend finding the right health system that works for you that will make your life shine so much brighter. I also found an amazing psychiatrist who has helped me find the right medication for my anxiety and ADD. What's your story? @drresa #drresa
Have you been exploring and touching yourself this week? What is masturbation to you? The definition is the sexual stimulation of one's own genitals for sexual arousal or other sexual pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm. Masturbation is not just a sexual act. It is an experience, a connection to go deep and find out who you are and what your life is all about. For me, it is an everyday practice (plus struggle) to help me slow down, breathe, connect, feel and enjoy every moment to get to know my body inside and out. Are you ready for a reboot, to reflect and dig deep and learn more and more about yourself? What are you going to do today that you're passionate about? I am Resa, the Sexy Sexologist living my true authentic sexual self! What is your story? Come explore and live your life to the fullest!! Xoxo DR @drresa #drresa
Scroll to the right to enjoy the videos of this photoshoot. What do you think of the forbidden list of words that CDC can not use? T*ransgender, f*etus, v*ulnerable, e*ntitlement, d*iversity, evidence-based & science-based. What is happening with America? Are they going to forbid the hot taboo words that we are all thinking and that most of us think about or do! Or are those words already banned? Does not make sense. Why? Hmm, maybe control, power from religion & the Bible? I’m trying to stay positive, and I will keep speaking my truth and filming videos, blogs & talking about my hot, taboo life and politics. Do it with me out loud, and more people will listen, learn & spread the word. Don’t forget to massage and give love to your body. Conservatives Republicans want a small government, and how does that work when trying to dictate our lives. Are you ready to be your true authentic sassy self? Start today by being real, honest, open, and speaking up to change these crazy chaotic backward views of life. xoxo, DR #drresa
What kind of ornament would you put on a sex educational Christmas Tree/Hanukkah Bush? What kind of sexy, real, authentic gift would you like under the tree this year? Would you please share your ornament ideas and stories? The more we share, the more we learn, the more we become our true sexy (s)elves! Winter and the holidays in NYC, I decided to get a tree! How would a sexy sexologist decorate a tree? Hmm, sexy, kinky, educational, funny, and something different? Please check out all the sexy, funny Christmas holiday videos at Youtube.com/drresa! Are you ready to see me in some sexy Santa outfits talking about the first-ever sex educational holiday tree? What kind of ornaments was on my holiday bush last year? Come check them out? What sexy decorations does your Christmas tree have? This holiday I am working on the ABCs of Sexy. What would your sexy ABCs be? Comment below, and I may add it to my tree! Remember today is #flirtyfriday, my sexy ones. You are sexy, confident, fabulous, amazing, and worth every moment! Enjoy and have a wonderful weekend. xoxo, DR #drresa
What part of 2021 were you the happiest and felt the healthiest and most alive? Please share your stories below. The more we learn, listen, grow, the more we help ourselves and others. How will you start 2022 on a positive note to be your true authentic hot self? Are you ready? Every day I am learning and trying to be better for myself and you. I struggle every day with anxiety and stress, especially during holidays and the end of the year. Am I doing the right thing? Should we keep going? Yes, we should & do it spicy. Plus, it makes us push ourselves even further. Daily reminders help writing and to be positive, focusing, slowing down, and enjoying life to the fullest. We don’t know what’s going to happen tomorrow. Are you living every day with passion, love, and happiness? It’s the holidays, and most people spend money they don’t have, live way over their means on credit cards and debt. Does that stress you out? What happened to America? The bigger, the better syndrome on the more significant the house, the bigger the diamond ring, the more expensive car, shoes, and extravagant fake, unrealistic life. For what? For image? Are you ready to slow down and enjoy time with your family, talk, hug, play board games, and really connect? What family traditions did you play or do growing up? Holidays this year, get off your phone, computer, camera, television for at least an hour. Sounds complicated and crazy, right! Spend time with the ones you love and experience family, friends, and loved ones without technology. Would you please share how you felt before, during, and after you got off the media-technology challenge? We don't need the stuff to make us happy. Do we? We need love, connection, food, water, and shelter. That's it! Are you really happy and healthy inside and out? Are you having a hot connection and letting go? Want to hear my story and how I became a minimalist, road trip crossed country to NYC and my life as the love doctor? Please join our @drresa wild adventures!! xoxo DR #drresa
Anything sex-related gets shut down, but guns don’t. Does that make sense? Closing down strip clubs, adult Craigslist, Backpage, and any sex-related websites bring more crime and hate in the world. People need sexual release, touch, connection, and if people are forbidden to go to a club or find an esc*rt or masseuse online. What happens? You don’t think of these luxuries until they are gone. Who is making this happen? Conservatives, Republicans, religion, politics are a few reasons. If you are a sex-healthy positive person, please start sharing your stories, and let's not have a throwback Tuesday and go back in history. Today we need to start moving forward one orgasm at a time. Are you ready to be your true authentic sexual self? xoxo, DR #drresa
Have you been masturbating and learning to love your body? I talk about it, think about it, but I don’t masturbate enough. I am guilty, just like you. We get busy, make excuses, or don’t think about it. Ready to change that? It is the end of the year, and we get busy and forget to take time to explore ourselves, our body, our vessel, and guess what it’s free fun, and you learn more about YOU! The more we learn and love ourselves first, the happier we can connect with others. We are surrounded by family, friends, religion, work who usually talk us into their own beliefs, ideas, and ways of life. Is that you? Who are you and what do you want? I love to teach back to basics and what life is really about. We are all here from an orgasm, so let's talk about it. Sex is so taboo we are getting shadowbanned, flagged, removed, and the SESTA FOSTA law is making our lives and so many others more scary and harmful. Do I give up and let the conservatives WIN? NO, I will keep talking, teaching, and speaking about SEX. I speak my truth, and I am in the best city with a sexy vengeance. Are you ready for me? I am Resa, the Sexy Sexologist living my true authentic sexual self? What is your story? Come explore and live your life to the fullest!! xoxo
, DR @drresa #drresa
5 Sexy date ideas in your own home! What's your favorite sexy at-home date idea? Do you have one or many? We get busy, have kids and a family, or most of the time; we just make excuses. No more excuses! Today is the perfect day to plan a passionate, fun date right at home. 1. Roll play/dress up and perform a striptease lap dance 2. Cook an aphrodisiac (a food, drink, or drug that stimulates sexual desire) meal together. 3. Watch porn together and roll different play scenes 4. Get some baby oil and massage each other up and down all around. Don’t forget to body slide and connect your bodies as one. 5. Bubble bath/shower and take time and clean everywhere and anywhere through touch, kiss, and getting wet. Comment below how your sexy at-home date night went, and you can win a free sexy coaching session with me, Dr. Resa, sexy sexologist! xoxo, DR #drresa
Are my photos and post too risque for Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok etc.? Have you ever taken #boudoir sexy photos? It's the holiday season, and I recommend booking a session; you will love it! Ready to feel sexy, confident, empowered after a photoshoot? A self-care gift to you is to learn and love yourself first by booking a photographer or asking a friend to take sexy photos of you. Go get your hair and makeup done, buy, borrow, or wear a bra and underwear, lingerie, or a sexy outfit. You are sexy, confident, and ready to make the rest of the year and 2021 the best! How did I become more confident in my own body and self? It was not easy for me. I have worked on myself, and now 25 years of experience in the sex worker world, I have a lot to share and say. Plus, I am learning by listening to your stories. Everything is on the internet so at least let me be part of it and make a difference. It helps me build my brand, my name & my sex-positive, healthy messages. I am Dr.Resa, the sexy sexologist, and please follow me, share & subscribe. Sex sells, and I'm really not showing much. Am I? But I could!! Check me out on drresa.xyz onlyfans/drresa and Patreon/drresa What if you are at the beach or a pool party? We all have bodies, and why are we scared or ashamed of our free vessel! Let’s start loving the bodies we have today inside and out. Let's make the most of it and enjoy ourselves. Breathe, connect, learn, love, and remember we are all here from an orgasm, so let’s start masturbating and connecting with ourselves one orgasm at a time. What is your story? Come explore and live your life to the fullest and become your true authentic sexual self xoxo, DR #drresa
What is selfcare Sunday all about? A time to slow down, a time to feel yourself and express your needs if only to yourself. It’s easy to get caught up in what others want around you on a daily basis, but take a day to be selfish. Take time to breathe, check in with yourself, feel your sweet sexy self and treat you right! Xoxo 💋 DR #drresa
Do you journal or track your big O's? Your food intake? Your walking steps? Your period? Your poops? What about drinks-alcohol, sodas, juices? Illegal drugs and or over-the-counter drugs? Vitamins? Do you pay attention and think about what you are doing? I know I need to focus and be more aware. We all do! Are you ready to reboot your life and join me on this journey? I am so ready!!! Super excited to share my story but please share your deepest stories & questions!! What is this reboot program, you might be asking? The last 25 years in the open-minded world, EbyResa and Dr.Resa Sexy Sexologist has been a wild adventure. I have met the most amazing people throughout these years, traveled, and worked worldwide, and now I am ready to share my story with you. I realized most people want to love and be loved. I know I do! The first step is to love and find our sexy, healthy, confident selves. I am designing this program with you in mind, and I need your help along the way. Part of the program will be for you to track and journal when you touch yourself, release, walk, eat, drink, etc.
All the stuff we don’t want to follow or know. Right? Healthy, safe sex is a very important topic we will be discussing a lot more in detail. Are you ready to know the secret to a long healthy, stimulating, happier life? Ready to learn healthy sexy, confident steps to experience the best full-body O's. Comment, DM me, sign up for my newsletter, subscribe to my youtube to get started. xoxo, DR #drresa
What are the best sex positions to use a vibrator? Did you read last week's @drresa Instagram post where Shape magazine interviewed me with questions below? So here are my answers to the best person on top position that you can include with a vibe? Who's holding the vibe? What's great about these positions?
There are so many amazing on-top positions with or without a vibrator. Let’s talk about the different positions and how you can bring your fingers, sex toys, or vibrators into the equation. There are many sex toys, from different speeds, shapes, sizes, vibrations, dildo to double dildo, cock rings, finger stimulators, glove stimulators, penis enhancers, internal and external toys, and materials more. What are you interested in, and what does your partner enjoy? Both partners should be on the same page, and communication and willingness to try new things are critical. Sex and safety with condoms, birth control, lube, getting tested are important hot topics partners should be discussing. Are you asking questions about sexual health and sex education to yourself and or your partner?
Are you interested in trying new sex positions tonight? Have you tried riding or straddling on top? Try positioning upward with your partner and wrapping your legs around them; look eye to eye and breath together. Move together and explore different connections with this new pose. Another great one is reverse cowgirl, with feet on the bed or floor. The most popular position is missionary. You can still spice up these moves by breathing, connecting, smiling, touching, eye contact, and toys. Getting in the moment and learning and loving your body first will allow you to communicate on a different level with yourself and your partner. Comment below, subscribe, and share my videos, blogs, and information. Remember, you are sexy, confident, brave, and worth it. Love you, sexy ones. Xoxo, DR drresa dot com #drresa
What are the best sex positions to use a vibrator? What's the best girl on top position that you can include with a vibe? Who's holding the vibe? What's great about these positions?
What are the best sex positions for two vulva-owners who want to share the vibrator in the sexual experience? A couple of examples would be lotus or scissoring?
Why is adding a vibe to oral sex so damn hot? Is there a super intimate sex position that you'd recommend for folks who like to feel snuggly and close? Spooning or any others?
Any tips for solo-touch or masturbating with a vibe? Any fun positions? How's missionary position with a vibe? What vibes would work for both of us to be comfortable in missionary? These are questions from a Shape magazine interview. Check my Instagram @drresa for my sexy answers. Did you know today is tap your tulips Tuesday? Please enjoy today and try new sex positions solo or with your partner and comment below how you felt before, during, and after. Are you ready to be your true authentic self? Please comment below, subscribe, and share my videos, blogs, and information. Remember, you are sexy, confident, brave, and worth it. Love you, sexy ones. Xoxo, DR drresa dot com @drresa #drresa
What did you do today to keep your spirits high? I don't watch the news or TV like I used to. Mainly because of my anxiety, I decided to listen to music more, dance & sing again & take more pictures for Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Patreon, Onlyfans, Fancentro, videos for YouTube, TikTok! The more I practice blogging vlogging, this lessens my insecurities & I get more confidence in my writing & talking! What do you do when you see your vision, but the wall is in your way? I am ready to break it free...Romeo Blue, my dog is always there, making me laugh & getting me out of my head. Your commenting, texting & emailing me inspire me to keep moving along. The more we get to know ourselves inside & out & we build each other up with kindness, knowledge, gratitude, touch, Sex & healthy positive education & ending hate & learning love. (I had to add sexy learning)
What are you going to do today to love yourself more & give more love to others? Taking a photo shoot in the shower is a great way to build yourself up, smile more & find your true inner beauty shining through. The more we get to know ourselves first, I believe we won't be relying on religion, politics, work, family, & what society thinks. Instead, we will live our authentic sexual life.. the sexy, spiritual path will bring more happiness to the world. We really need that now more than ever. More Facebook Lives, Youtubes, IG & Stories we share, the more people we will reach! One person at a time! xoxo, DR #drresa
Have you ever been given a lap dance before? Have you ever received a lap dance? Perfect time to start the lap dance moves right before the holidays. Lap dancing to me is foreplay, role play, connection, and a time to have fun! Enjoy & share the following teaser video clip on EbyResa’s how to lap dance and striptease—interested in watching more videos? Download and practice all the striptease lap dance moves on my site and buy the DVD/streaming on Amazon. Great holiday gifts! Remember to keep your partner engaged. Always smile, laugh, and make it fun. If you are enjoying what you are doing, that is the most important. You loving yourself first and enjoying these moves are healthy sexy positive changes to a happier life! Feel sexy, feel good! Comment below your lap dance stories for a FREE worksheet on five easy steps on how to start a lap dance! @drresa #drresa
The perfect place to massage your breasts and get to know your body is in the shower! Breathe, relax and take your time learning and loving your body inside and out. How do you clean your vulva, vagina, penis, scrotum, and or anus? How do you feel when you clean your genitals? It's important to learn sex and healthy positive steps to be more aware & connected. Are you ready to learn more about your body and find out what you love & enjoy? This builds self-love and confidence. A daily practice I recommend is to take your time and understand and get to know your genitalia. For women, get to know your clitoris, labia, vagina, perineum, g-spot, ass, anus, and asshole. Men's bodies are easier to understand because the genitals are mainly shown. Is your penis circumcised or uncircumcised? Do you know ways to keep it healthy & clean? Have you touched your prostate, perineum, ass, anus & or asshole? You can learn and love your body by being innovative, sexy & confident. Not just sexual. Starting in the shower is the perfect place to practice. You are already naked, wet, and touching and cleaning yourself. Explore your genitalia with your fingers by touching and moving around the different parts of your body and see how it feels. For women, caress your vulva, labia and don’t forget your clitoris. The vulva is the entrance to your vagina. What does this feel like? Do you feel wet, dry, moist, warm? Now slowly put your fingers in your vagina and move and feel around. Examining and experiencing how your vagina feels inside gets you to understand yourself and your body. Make this a daily practice while washing, touch your genitalia when you get the more comfortable smell, and taste your fingers after you touch inside your vagina. Notice if there are anybody changes from day today. Remember, you are sexy, fun, amazing, and ready to be your authentic sexual self. Join Dr. Resa Sexy Sexologist Sex, Relationship, and Confidence Coach! xoxo, DR #drresa
Is masturbation one of your habits? Do you self-touch and self-explore every day? When you touch yourself, do you use your hands and fingers? Or do you use a dildo, vibrator, or a sex toy? What’s your form of getting excited to self-pleasure yourself? Pornography or sexy photos on your phone, computer, DVDs, VHS tapes, magazines, or a fantasy/imagination? Have you tried mutual masturbation with your partner? What about spicing up your self-care regimen with different positions, a new location, not using porn or a toy, and trying something different. We get used to a daily habit, and if we change it up, we usually find out so much more about ourselves! Please share your stories below. The more we think about it, the more we talk about it, the more we learn. Today is Self Care Sunday! Take time for yourself and start your week off with a bang. Remember, you are sexy, confident, courageous, and worth it. Love you sexy ones!! Xoxo 💋DR #drresa
What did you do this week to relax, release & connect with Yourself? Did you stop and take 3 sexy breaths every hour? This helps me stop, breathe, meditate, & get back to now & living & feeling Love & Connection! I work on this every day & it's still a struggle. You? I would love to hear what you're going to do today to stop & listen & love yourself? Tell me below? xoxo, DR #drresa
Would you date a stripper or a sex worker? I would love to hear your stories and thoughts. Please comment below. Most people are intrigued, excited, willing to date, or have sex with someone in the sex industry. When it comes to the long term, meeting the family or coworkers is a different story. Why do you think that is? The people I have dated were concerned about their image, religious beliefs, the family accepting a person who is not the same as them, and why you would date someone who connects with others. This leads to guilt, shame, being scared but thrilled at the same time. I would rather date someone who wants all of me and accepts the unique, different, wild, outspoken, sexy me. Wouldn't you love it? If a partner can't speak the truth about his lover, why should we deal with the headache in the future? Maybe that is the main reason why I am single, but I am a harlot through and through. There are people out there who understand, appreciate, and adore open-minded individuals. If you think you are weird, NO, you are not. Don't listen to them; you are normal. Did you know I offer sex, relationship, and confidence coaching? Do you have at least one person to talk to about your dreams, worries, faults, issues, stories, passions, and life? If you need a safe, non-judgemental, straight to the point, open your mind, and ready to be your true sexual self, I am the sexy sexologist for you. If you have questions about getting started in the sex industry- stripper, e*scort, etc., please book a session NOW. Go to drresa.com to learn more. Go out and dance, move your body, feel the music, and live the extraordinary life you deserve. Remember your excellent, brave, and worth it. Love you, sexy ones. xoxo, DR Instagram/drresa youtube/drresa JOIN fancentro/drresa onlyfans/drresa to view the full sexy, risque photoshoot! xoxo, DR #drresa
